Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar 10th August 2015 Written Update

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Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar 10th August 2015 Written Update by H_Hasan

Itna Karo Na Mujhe Pyaar 10th August 2015 Written Episode

The episode starts with Ragini starts crying out loudly and telling Neil he cannot take Aarav to America. He says he will as she ruined Aarav’s life by sending him to jail forcefully to boast herself as insaaf ki devi/truth goddess who sent her own son to jail for justice. She says she wants to change. He says she will not. She separated from him due to her ego and even spoilt his children’s life, now he will not let his children suffer because of her. She asks Aarav to come with him. He asks her to stop her drama and he will go with papa. She starts alleging Neil that he is taking revenge from her by taking Arav forcefully and brainwashing him.

Pam interferes, but Ragini asks her to stay away. She continues yelling at Neil that he is taking away Arav from her to take revenge. He asks what revenge she is talking about, she is an arrogant/egoistic woman who wants to ruin everyone’s lives to satisfy her ego. Ragini continues yelling. Arav asks her again to stop her drama. Sunny intervenes and asks if he forgot how his mother took care of her with great difficulty to bring him up. He says he did not forget how his mom sent him to jail and disowned him, he used to think of her, if she had eaten or not, but she did not turn out even after a year and when papa wants to take him to US and give him a new life, she wants to ruin it due to her ego.

Aman interferes and says he will transfer his hospital into his name. Aarav says he cannot accept it as he is not his father. Neil says if Aman marries Ragini, he will be Aarav’s stepfather and not father, Arav’s father is alive to take care of him. Aman takes Ragini from there. Neil tells his children that he wants them to start afresh with him in US and asks them to hug him. All of them hug him.

Ragini walks crying with Aman reminiscing Neil and Arav’s words.

RK consoles Pam and she starts shedding tears. Karan and Dimpy enter and ask what is happening and Karan asks RK to come with him. Devika comes fuming and asks RK how can he come to this party and asks Karan if he is not ashamed to support others instead of his brother. RK says everyone are his dear ones and even she should stop yelling at Neil’s family. She yells at Pam that she brainwashed and lured RK again. Dimpy asks how can she say that. RK starts shouting at her. She breaks their engagement and say she does not want to marry a spineless man who gets insulted often and walks out asking him not to ever see her again.

Ragini reaches home with Aman and Sunny. Mom asks where is Arav. Ragini asks where is her big suitcase and asks sunny tai to get it as Arav will be going to US with Neil. Aman tries to calm her down. Mom asks what is happening. Aman says Neil is taking Arav to US. Ragini continues her drama and asks Sunny to pack Arav’s shoes, etc. Aman asks her to relax. She says she is worried about her son’s future and there is no point in her crying and stopping him. Aman says he says everything will be alright. She says nothing can be alright now as Arav is going away from her and Neil succeeded in his revenge and is taking Arav with him. Aman asks her not to lose hope and says he is with her always.

Sunny serves diner to Aman, mom and Ragini. Ragini does not eat and continues crying. Door bell rings. Ragini runs and opens door thinking Arav has come, but its Agam instead who says she did not wish him happy birthday at all. She hugs him and starts crying.

Precap: Neil asks Ragini what does she mean she is not finding Arav’s passport. She says she is not and he knows when she gets nervous, she does not get things easily. He asks how can she miss such an important document. She asks him to go and wait outside.
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dvlakshmi

August 11, 03:14 Reply

Yes, Ragini has made a blunder…. she failed to visit her son, Arav in the jail, yes she failed miserably ! She could have sought a bail , consoled him , and made him realize that she is with him at this trying stage of life. Whatever, excuse she may her for this, she cannot justify this major oversight on her part. But, is she the only one to abandon Arav ? What about the father ? He could have done the needful . But, did he ? No, instead , he quit… he fled from the battlefield… Why isn’t Arav not angry with him ?

Yes, Ragini has major attitude problems ! She is arrogant, egotistic and stubborn to the core. Neil is no better… he too is stubborn, arrogant and egoistic…So, they are at par.Given the circumstances , any woman would walk out of a marriage, an unfaithful husband and that is precisely what Ragini did .Years went by and Neil claims he was given no opportunity to explain himself.

The children who were raised by Ragini are an ungrateful lot. There’s no doubt.They refused to heed to their mother’s advice and then to hold a grudge against her, and to blatantly blame her for all the mishaps in their life … is just not done. It is only close proximity that brings in these issues. A visiting parent or a long distant one does not have to confront theses problems. The parent too, does NOT overstep the thin line of control . So, the ingrates worship that parent .

Ragini’s mother’s advice is a sound one. She cannot be a witness to her daughter’s sadness. Any mother would want their child to move on in life, whatever be their age , end that futile stage . With Dr Aman around, she wants the best for her daughter . She has never been disrespectful to Dr Neil, but she sees no hope in that relationship.

Finally, what is the role that Dr Aman has played in this drama ? He has stood by his friend , at all moments. Why is there so much of hatred for this kindred soul ?Yes, he has a very laid back attitude, comical at times BUT he is a good man.

But to heap all blame on Ragini and hold her responsible for everything wrong that happened, is nothing short of a prejudice. Go ahead, love and worship Neil , BUT don’t abuse and slander Ragini beyond imagination. For the fault lies not only on Ragini but also on Neil.Maybe , Ekta should rename this serial…. Pride and Prejudice .

31 Comments

dvlakshmi
August 11, 03:14 Reply

Yes, Ragini has made a blunder…. she failed to visit her son, Arav in the jail, yes she failed miserably ! She could have sought a bail , consoled him , and made him realize that she is with him at this trying stage of life. Whatever, excuse she may her for this, she cannot justify this major oversight on her part. But, is she the only one to abandon Arav ? What about the father ? He could have done the needful . But, did he ? No, instead , he quit… he fled from the battlefield… Why isn’t Arav not angry with him ?

Yes, Ragini has major attitude problems ! She is arrogant, egotistic and stubborn to the core. Neil is no better… he too is stubborn, arrogant and egoistic…So, they are at par.Given the circumstances , any woman would walk out of a marriage, an unfaithful husband and that is precisely what Ragini did .Years went by and Neil claims he was given no opportunity to explain himself.

The children who were raised by Ragini are an ungrateful lot. There’s no doubt.They refused to heed to their mother’s advice and then to hold a grudge against her, and to blatantly blame her for all the mishaps in their life … is just not done. It is only close proximity that brings in these issues. A visiting parent or a long distant one does not have to confront theses problems. The parent too, does NOT overstep the thin line of control . So, the ingrates worship that parent .

Ragini’s mother’s advice is a sound one. She cannot be a witness to her daughter’s sadness. Any mother would want their child to move on in life, whatever be their age , end that futile stage . With Dr Aman around, she wants the best for her daughter . She has never been disrespectful to Dr Neil, but she sees no hope in that relationship.

Finally, what is the role that Dr Aman has played in this drama ? He has stood by his friend , at all moments. Why is there so much of hatred for this kindred soul ?Yes, he has a very laid back attitude, comical at times BUT he is a good man.

But to heap all blame on Ragini and hold her responsible for everything wrong that happened, is nothing short of a prejudice. Go ahead, love and worship Neil , BUT don’t abuse and slander Ragini beyond imagination. For the fault lies not only on Ragini but also on Neil.Maybe , Ekta should rename this serial…. Pride and Prejudice .
- nafisa
  August 11, 03:56
  
  Neil is a very bad father, he just knows how to shower d kids wt money,bt can’t guide them to wrong or right,always agrees wt wat dy want.when nishi wanted to get married, ragini didn’t agree,bt neil forced her to, so why shoud nishi blame her for her failed marriage???Also when arav wanted to leave his studies n start a bussines ragini told him to complete his studies first,bt neil sides wt him n look at d end result,still it’s ragini’s fault, how???Ragini has tried so much as a mother to ungrateful kids,she should just leave disown them now n live her life,to hell wt them.
- minnal
  August 11, 07:34
  
  Well said dvlakshmi…
- dvlakshmi
  August 11, 09:10
  
  Thanx,N n M .
- J
  August 11, 10:42
  
  Yes!
Sania
August 11, 03:01 Reply

“All this is because of that brainless and heartless Shilpa she couldn’t see aarav’s love for her…….and because of her aarav wanted to do business and become like Ranveer ……I think everyone are brainless in this serial”………
- asha
  August 13, 01:05
  
  What a joke. Why should shilpa love arav. Comparing ranvir and arav. Ranvir is having a class. Nishi and arav just want to get married even if they are very young and immature. Because always ragini has dominated them not stood by them . children cannot be advised but we have to live life and show them. We should know what is in their mind like a friend so that our kids share all their feelings to us. On the other hand look at the kids brought up by pan. She may sound arrogant but the way she has taken care of neil’s kids is really commendable. Ragini as a mother is no where a match as a mother.
katrina
August 11, 01:21 Reply

SIRA is absolutely RIGHT
Kushy
August 10, 15:33 Reply

sry but why crying Ragini,I do not understand it. I mean Aarav wants stay with his Father, 15 years he stay with his Mother, so where is the problem if Aarav wants now stay with his Father?

Aarav must be over eighteen now, and should be able to make his own decisions.

I hate Ragini and her arrogant attitude she is so selfish. She has not time for the other Kids, Farmhouse not time for Nishi,Ranbir,Suhani and Aagam she has only time from Aman and crying and very importantly for stick their nose in other peoples matters. No time for Aarav but time for crying,blames,taunts and scolds and,very importantly, time for the engagement.
- J
  August 10, 18:24
  
  Do u have kids?
- Minnal
  August 11, 01:45
  
  Obviously not
- Kushy
  August 11, 03:32
  
  @Minnal
  shut up understood!
  
  @J and Minnal
  and have you Kids? I think not!!!
  
  I have Kids 4 and i have no problem (like Ragini) that my Kids spend time with her Father. I’m a modern woman and life in 21st century not in the middle ages. My Kids love and respect me and her Father, and she accept our rule. I and my Husband spoil not the life of our Kids, and i put my nose not in other peoples matters (like Ragini). Because i respect other peoples life and opinions.
  
  So and now stay away because it is my private life understood
- Kushy
  August 11, 05:02
  
  I forgot to mention that one of my child is eighteen,and if she want holiday with Friends or spend time with her Father she can, because she is eighteen and they make their own decisions. We support our Kids,respect her opinion,we talk about it and make joint decisions. We force our Child not.
  And we put also not our nose in her matters this is also the reason why our Kids us as parents respect.
  
  Ragini take a decision over Nishi’s life and Aarav’s life (Nishi want holiday with her Father US) but Ragini says no, Aarav want spend time with his Father (US) and again Ragini says no, hello both are over eighteen and Nishi is married.
  
  great is if Nishi negative things says about Aman and Ragini hates it,but why Nishi hates Aman and Ragini should it finally accept.
- minnal
  August 11, 07:51
  
  Sorry kushy was not my intent to insult you. It is commendable ur approach to parenting. But there is no text book case to handle all kids the same way. What works gor one family wont necessarily work for another. and what works with one child wont work with another.
  I’m a mother of 3, with two teenagers too. I can safely say my kids are unique in their way of handling situations and controling emotions. Yet Ive bought them all up with the same principals and love and conditions.
  
  Laying down ground rules to guide ur children in the right direction is no crime. Its in fact a necessity. A way to protect ur child. Which is the utmost duty of a parent.
  
  My oldest recently had to tell off one of her friends who said she shouldnt have to obey her parents and should think for herself. My daughter said what my parents do is for my safety and my betterment, so why wouldnt I listen to them. Just because you talk back to ur parents and demand attention when ever you want, and ur parents give into it out of embarrassement doesnt mean ur right and Im stupid. Its just that I respect them enough to obey them cause I yrust them to do right by me… I was the happiest mother on earth…
  
  Yes i love my kids , Yes I want to give them the best, But the no 1 priority is their safety and teaching them life doesn’t always go as u wish. Prepare them for disappointments too… Saying no to ur child doesn’t mean ur holding them back, it means ur teaching them u cant have everything always.
  
  Ragini’s only fault is that she doesnt explain her thoughts to anyone. She makes it sound like because she says so. But her intensions are pure. Those kids are her life. What is wrong with wanting to guide them n protect them?
- minnal
  August 11, 07:55
  
  Again sorry if my comments in anyway made you feel bad. I realise I shouldn’t have prejudged. Sorry.
- J
  August 11, 10:42
  
  I have two kids
- J
  August 11, 10:51
  
  It’s not about staying with Neil. He’s leaving forever. Doesn’t want to be around his mother. That’s why she’s freaking out. I wonder if he will be able to go to the states with a criminal record? In the states and Canada crim records under age are sealed. Not in India I guess. Dumb show. Sexist show. Ekta is a shame.
Sunny
August 10, 14:23 Reply

I hope Ragini learn lesson. I m surprise Ragini’s mother never told her what is right and what is wrong. She is a Gujrati lady, and Gujrati lady always secrifries for husband but never see Ragini did for Nil. Instead she insulted him too many times. Dr Aman is so annoying, why they not kick him out ? Always running behind Ragini . Doing nothing. Sunny tai why don’t u tell Ragini that go start life with Nil. If Ragini fergive Nil and start new life with him , everybody will happy, she can have all her kids even. I hope she think all this. Can’t she see that her kids hate Aman ? Why she don’t understand? Brainless lady.
- guest
  August 10, 14:48
  
  You’re right. And Ragini’s Mother is useless, i have never seen such useless character as Mother. Aman is only irritating.
- J
  August 10, 18:24
  
  She’s a great mom
sira
August 10, 14:20 Reply

I feel bad for ragini. It was really neil’s fault that arav went to jail because even though he knew that arav was being chased by goons and his life was in danger he was having dinner with ragini and didnt bother to tell her what was happening to her own son! Ragini might be strict but she was always right. She told arav not to start a bussiness so early but neil encouraged him to do it anyway.And if neil was telling arav to start a bussiness he should have helped him out so the whole thing wouldn’t have started. I am with ragini all the way and I hope her stupid children will realise her worth.I’ll bet anything that once arav goes to america he will like to come back.
- guest
  August 10, 14:37
  
  what the hell.. stop blaming Neil and the Kids for Ragini’s arrogant attitude. Neil has a big ego right, but it was not his fault that Aarav went to jail or that Ragini she from him separated due to her ego. And look what for a great Mother not time for Aarav and not time for visit, no time for call a lawyer. Only time for crying,blames,taunts and scolds and,very importantly, time for the engagement.
- J
  August 10, 18:21
  
  I agree sira. The fact he started his business and then borrowed money from goons shows how not ready he was. I wish people in this site would get over their crush on Neil and watch the show with little more level headed ness. They are both not perfect. He didn’t have time to help Arav properly. I don’t think ragini would ever let her kids talk to Neil like that so again Neil is a moron for not standing up for what is right. He’s a jackass. He can’t see that Arav is hurting and clearly loves his mom. He left for the states with no second thoughts about Arav. Why isn’t Arav mad at him? Aman is a good man. But people commenting are thinking with their hormones rather than brains. Pam is a cow but is loved? What is this show teaching us? Be shit disturber and you are good? Morals missing from this show.
- J
  August 10, 18:41
  
  And to say he hates her in front of the kids is wrong at all levels. At the end of the day the kids are part of their mom too. I used to get so angry if my mom or dad said anything negative about each other so they didn’t because ultimately it hurt me. Neil was horrible today.
- Minnal
  August 11, 01:13
  
  Sira and J, so glad to kno
- Minnal
  August 11, 01:35
  
  SIra & J,
  Glad to see there are actual fans with brains and emotions And not biased by looks.
  So totally agree with you both… Some how most of the fans seam to disregard, Neil’s ego and Total disregard to his kids raised by RAgini up until now…
  
  Neil was right there when Arav was sentenced to imprisonment, he had all the wealth and power to bring him out the very next day had he chosen to, yet ran off to US because he Couldnt take Ragini’s criticisms of how he dealt with the situation. His ego was more important than his sons future back then, with what nerve he is talking about Ragini destroying Arav’s life? Where was his sence of responsibility back then. Its not like Ragini sentenced her son, they were all there at thE scene… Neil has no sence of shame or responsibility for his actions, yet gladly finds fault with Ragini’s parenting… Ragini is at fault in not visiting Arav in prison, for that I will not excuse any claim of hers… There is no Excuse for that, but both Arav and Nishi were fine until Neil entered the picture. Even though she was overly strict, Ragini always put her kids and their Future b4 hers. She’s not perfect and is quite overbearing, but she only lived for her kids…
  
  It’s sad that she has such ungrateful kids…
  Arav must go to US, where he will learn the hard way what life has in store for him…
  Im damn sure Ranbir will make like difficult for him… Even Pam Does not see him as her child, so he will def learn the true meaning of a mothers love in US… Neil as usual will be oblivious to anything thats happening but his work… Some ppl learn lesson the hard way…
  
  Even Nishi is up for a life changing shock soon… She wanted to Marry, now she can have it On a platter…
  
  Ragini should just disappear for a while, let all the blocks come tumbling down, then both her ungrateful kids will realise her true worth… For now Ragini should give them her blessings and just Stay out of everyones lives.
- Minnal
  August 11, 01:44
  
  There is one thing i agree with neil though, Ragini, never gave Neil the chance to explain, so today she is getting it back in the worst possible way.
  
  This drama has a lot Of life lessons for all of us… Mostly ur ego… Both are too egoistic and Suffering the consequences of it… Not just them but shows how it affects the kids too…
  Only in real life u dont have the additional interference of characters such as Nivedhitha’s…
- nina
  August 11, 02:20
  
  i agree. Be a single mum and than comment about Ragini. We worked. hard for children and never thought about herself.
  Arav did wrong so did his elder brother . In Indian serials police never gets to the bottom of. the case before charges are laid.
  Granted Ragini did not visit Arav in Jail but that does not mean. you hate your parent. Only kids can make mistakes and be forgiven by their parents not other way. around.
  Who ever is writing this serial it is a joke. Nevadita a vamp who created problems before for Neil and the whole family trust her yet again. Looks like Neil and family have no real brains.
- chanu
  August 11, 02:36
  
  only the one who watches serial carefullly understands whats right or wrong and u re totally correct
  just bcoz ronit roy is good-looking viewers cant blame ragini for aarav going jail
  its neil’s fault
hbk
August 10, 13:53 Reply

and between ragini is now taking taste kf her own medicines. neil was right. when neil asked her to explain himself many time before bt ragini didnt bother. then why will neil listen?
hbk
August 10, 13:51 Reply

where this story is going? no idea..