Hi all, trins, just read your post on the MIL, well, just pretend she does not exist and since her son cut all ties with her, then you will not be obligated to to see her in the future, if you know she will be somewhere, keep your distance, just to avoid her saying things that will upset the bf,
Believe me, mine is getting good beans from the son and DIL in the house, but yet I am the worst one, she still don’t want my husband and I at her home, the DIL home left her husband went to live with someone else just two streets away, she came back and she is the best thing out, we have to treat her with respect and don’t make noise upstairs because she resting downstairs, well, I keeping far away from them. Everybody in the city who knows, and I mean almost everybody in the offices sround knows, well he is the laughing stock of the city now,
And before I got married my mil had loads of restrictions to tell me about going satsangh and retest by a certain persons house, she said oh leople would talk and accuse me of being with man etc, and if I have to marry her son I have to stop that, well yuh girl eh taking that from no body, I told her off, nicely
, yet now she saying I quarrel with her. Well now she knows what real quarrel is. And it’s been over 18 years I’m married, I still going by that persons house for satsangh etc, and not a soul north south east or west of Trinidad can say a word about me with regards to that issue. I should let her know that. Because she still saying I quarrel with her.
Well sorry for ranting people. Just that this mil thing came up and it’s happening now but I’m glad her son knows what she really is. So Trinity don’t swear it, your bf in the same boat with you, sail into the sunset together and be happy.
I really don’t understand these women,but I’m done wasting precious time and entry on her.
Kris so many times I wanted to tell her “Hul yuh mudda so and so” but for the bf I kept cool.
But now I’m so over it.
She also accused me of having and affair when I went to Dubai.
It takes to much energy to be angry,and I done wasting my energy on fruitless endeavors.
Sometimes a good rant is what we need so don’t apologize.
Hey kris di thnQ …. Guys my parents were in India in feb but they liked it very much only they were sad everywhere u had poor people my mom specially felt bad …. They went to Delhi Jaipur Rajasthan Mumbai riskikhesh haridwar Chandigarh . They went to a gurdwara to a temple .to different places
What did I do to deserve this woman as my future MIL?!
Sunday was my bf aunt birthday so she invited us to her home to spend the day with her and the rest of their family. We were both apprehensive at first cause we knew his mom will be their,but I told him lets go cause its your family and they want us to be their.
Everything was goin well with his aunt uncles and his cousins,we where chatting about the wedding and everything that goes along with it. It was goin well until she came and started her stupidity again.
It got worst as the day went along with her vail insults and her usual crappy behavior towards me,but I kept it together for his sake so he could enjoy being with his family.
I’ve endured enough from this woman from insults about my race my family and her telling me to my face she was happy when I had a miscarriage 2yrs ago.She then decided to make a scene and disrupt her sister bday party.But you know what’s the really sad thing is about her behavior,its the toll it takes on her son,she’s so blinded by her dislike of me she can’t see how she hurts him.
After what she did at the party he told her he doesn’t want her at the wedding. He told me he’s done hoping she will change.
Kris I know u once told me to make sure he keeps in contact with her and not to disrespect her but honestly this on her shoulders now. I supported him when for seven years,when we tried with her we can’t do it anymore. We’re excited to be married and buying our home,and kids in the future,but we can’t keep hoping she’ll change.
I bet you guys are happy you don’t have a MIL like mine.
Trinty don’t burn your blood, why are you burning your blood on your MIL
Just say yes ma yes ma, be little diplomatic, just compromised and di what your heart desire if it is ok with bf
Don’t forget my mom always says when youh marry two family marry too
It us 12 year my dad gone but gm mom still balance both family,somtime my dad side of the family become unreasonable we get very upset, but I tell youh in long run it will be ok
Show GeForce you live her and respect her
Don’t be sorry for Saturday, I mow Jow much your were with us and Suni , she kniws that
I am in Starbucks waitting some friends , this waitting is killing me man…..
Ur right not to burn my blood {I like that saying}
Sj I’m just tired of her and her antics.
Yeah I guess we all have family drama.
I like how you describe me in your post about my high heels,Sj if I ever go shoe shopping with you, you will runaway screaming.LOL can you say Louis Vuitton pumps.
Enjoy your Starbucks coffee,try not to send the guys crazy! With ur smoking hot self. Haha
Trinity ignor your MIL , or speak to your BF , he should straight her out
Yah Trinity I picture you in high heels with branded big pocketbook , when you keep describing
Meeting and trips
I am 5.5 wear 4inch heels , sometime even bigger , but daily I wear pumps but gave to be stylish
My mom say if you fell in subways you will hurt your face , and will break your nose
Hey this is one life to live, me and my fashion go together
I am not ready to be a nun , want to do all the sins than in my old age will wash them
Sj I’m so sorry about Saturday I had no WiFi service at home.
Kris,amaica,sj you ladies are wonderful!! Thank you for the support u have given to our wonderful friend on Saturday.
Phoenix be blessed and much love to you and ur family.
MU my fantastic fierce strong young woman!
My grandma shared these words with and I’ll share them with you.
“A person comes into your life”
“For a REASON, SEASON OR A LIFETIME”
Enjoy urself at uwi carnival.
Trinity…
We were looking out for you.. Knew something
had to be wrong .. However, you should read
SJ’s description of meeting you for the first time..
She will crack you up..You missed out on all the fun..
Your Gran is absolutely correct..Good advice..
Kris .. I will make an effort to look at the show if Prateet
is acting in it .. But Ragu’s younger brother’s role did not
appeal to me..
Suni.. I hope you are taking care of yourself.. Probably
still have guess over.. We are waiting for you.
SJ.. Like you are too tired after the puja.. Okay take rest..
MU.. Hope you are in good spirit..
Afresh.. Diamond princess.. So you have disappeared again..
Dear AMAICA thank you for your beautiful words and strand by me like always
I came back Sunday to my dorm, just work and assignments, weather is getting better will go out for dinner with some friends
I want to ask forgiveness from everyone , making fun of them you were right about MU that was too cute
Take care love for everyone
There is no need to ask forgiveness..
You did absolutely nothing wrong..
You greeted each of us exactly the way you
Visualize us.. and It was humorous .. an exciting..
I don’t think any of us could have done it better..
You did an excellent job.. I applaud you for it..
Trinity..
Just read about the MIL .. Sorry to say but I think she
is sick..It may sound bad.. But if after seven years she
did not accept the relationship and she creates a scene
with you every opportunity she gets.. Then she will not
change and you guys should stay away from her.. If she
Is not invited to the wedding… It’s because of her own
doing..She is capable or perhaps planning to create havoc
on your day.. Make sure you have security..
. Don’t feel bad about it..Some people just don’t change..
Surrender the situation to God.. God will bless your wedding..
Well, time changed, thought I was tuning in to watch QH but instead was SSLP 🙁 Oh well
Hey just found out that Prateek will be taking up a very positive role as Raghu younger brother in DDBEDS, don’t look at it often, but will try it’s not too bad these days,
so thursday morning i watched as my relationship of almost 4 years got burnt and slashed to the ground in a couple of minutes
i am single….and im happy
unexpected drama unfolded as i expected him who always boast how great he is how much money he earns and how much of a great catch he is turned into something ugly and disgusting by the actions which he did
1) he ended it based on the fact he accused me that i cheated because he read my text messages of a guy friend and i teasing each other. I told him im already giving up intimacy for lent and if i really am why would i be talking to a guy about wining on his waistline and more at uwi carnival.
2) i agreed and i remained silent. Im tired of accusations and feeling emotionally abused by him. His use of words snidely to belittle me. I am an independent blessed young lady who came from a good home. My values are strong and i live by them and do my damn best to be honest.
3) he did something that as a man should never do. I lost respect for him. It wasnt cheating its his attitude and his arrogance to feel entitled to my meagre finances in comparison to his so call big pay cheque and his material wealth. He’s on that hype life. Money cant buy love. When finances are ruined, intimacy iis dead, you have bad health and depressed…love will make you stronger and give hope to do more. He Yes money can make you happy if used in a positive matter yet we cant take wealth to heaven or paradise.
He failed in some aspects of a man: to love protect and provide for his love ones. Love comes with respect
I could rant on and on how much of a bastard and asshole he is. I have forgiven him to the best of how he has hurt me repeatedly, how much ive encouraged him and stuck with him when he had nothing and I wish him all the best.
But no more tears and pain. Im not looking back. I;m moving forward. I have dreams that I want to see and build I have faith that God will guide me.
So i’ve totally cut him off this time. It;s time to end the damn cycle.. I’m tired and I want to relax 🙂
MU, you are a great individual, independent and strong willed, you will survive alone, don’t let anyone put you down, they must love you for who and what you are accept faults and goodness at the same time, it takes a while to get out of a relationship,you will need time to heal and what better time than lent, start anew and put all bitterness in the past,
Remember the only true love in our life is God, he loves us no matter what, unconditional love, no one in this world can love us like Him, so put you faith in him and you will be ok.
Take care my dear, lots of love hugs and kisses.
Don’t worry you will rise and shine again…
Everything happens in it’s rightful time for a reason..
There are greater and better things awaiting you..
But in order for it to materialize.. The drama had to play off..
The Good Lord will bless you again with true love,
Joy..laughter, deep sharing and understanding,
happiness and success is awaiting you..
Now you must release him without any lingering resentments
and blaming as he travels on his new journey of life..
Bless him with health and happiness.
MU my sister , I can’t read all of your message just yet but what I read sounds somewhat familiar to me with regards to accusations .
Keep strong , trust in God and in your better judgement . .
Everything will be alright . . Love you . .
Thank you all so much for being my support and strength and my family .
The prayers was conducted as planned and everything went well .
Love you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Suni.. It is great to hear from you.. Happy to know that everything
Went as planned.. but I am also aware that it was a lot of hard work
on your part…..I am sure you are feeling relaxed and relieved..
.We must give thanks to God..
After you have rested please tell us a bit more..
SJ… Is such a wonderful soul..Suni she is very true to you.. Did girl
Actually went home and made her Mom take her to the temple to
Do puja for your Mom..To me that is extraordinary.. One in a million
Will think to do that.. And she did..I hold her in very high esteem..
Oh SJ, your mom is a wonderful soul, she has taught you well, doing for others are more important than the keeping fast and doing all these rituals, it becomes naught if you are not kind to others or help the less fortunate, that is what my religious organization does all over the world, we do our little part here, in India we have charity hospital where we give free treatment for all, we also have a school for girls in a rural village where girls are not allowed higher education because the colleges are very far, it is all free and we also provide clothes books bicycles etc. You gain good karma when you do good and think of others.
You and your mom are doing good, keep up the good work, it is always a pleasure to hear from you.
I don’t keep fast, it’s too hard, but I do other things, lots of charity and try to do Sadhana whenever I can, even though I get scolded for not doing everyday and teaching my children to do everyday too.
Good night sleep tight all.
Thanks kriss
My mom set up a charity fund in gm dad’s memory every September 11 my grandparents and my uncles go in villages and get des from DELHI Appolo hospitals and di eye clinic or surgical operation
Varity of work like blood donation camp or open hospital or lab on September 11,12,13
For free testing, we visit orphanage to provide blanket,or sweater or school supplies to
Needy girl or if any poor girls are having problem in wedding to help a little in that
So we do every year, in USA my mom send little fund to the organization where my dad ysed to send
So what ever we can do , from that trust fund , either providing eye glasses, or medication
Or blanket, Iran books or school uniform
My mom does all that , she never spent much in her that us her legacy now
Thanks for understanding, my mom set up that trust fund in my dad’s name since 12 year
It feels very good
Kris I am impressed, you people are doing such a wonderful things
It is more rewarding and feel goid when you do fir others, I am so happy and blessed to get to know you , what a beautiful person you and AMAICA are
How many people must be giving blessing to you and your organization
Gid bless you and your family
Kris And SJ ..
I enjoyed reading your messages..
It feels good to sit back and just observe sometimes.
SJ.. I agree with Kris about your Mom after reading
your messages. Keep up the good work that you both
are doing.. What a great seva you do on your B Day..
Kris you too.. You have found your path.. God Bless..
Amaica, I donno what happen to my Gv, it gone missing, have to hire the deceive team to go look for it lol
SJ your mom sounds like me sometimes, lol, I love to go Mandir and take part in religious activities. holi is I the air and love singing Holi pads, when you get your own family I’m sure you will gradually gravitate to your religious upbringing, that is because of the good upbringing by your mom.
Well prayers finished, time to rest and relax, Suni will put up her foot, I will start massaging, with hot oil she will relax and fall asleep and when she wakes up in the morning, she would be refreshed and ready for school on Monday.
Amaica I prefer to be here, it’s better than socializing in the world and “minding people’s business” as we say here in good ole TNT, our family here is the best, no confusion and headache,mew help each other when one is down, we lift them up.
We are loving and kind to each other and no outsiders can break up up, well unless of course admin kick us out in due time lol,
Well so long, until, hope to hear two lines from Suni at least in the comig weeks.
Dear kriss and AMAICA thank you , i do not agree that it is a waste of time, sometime I refresh my self talking to you guys
No one have pressure , it feels mental help, we are group of smart and wise people, no one advices bad to anyone, we share good understanding, what psychiatric does, same thing
Anyway , I know kriss, I don’t get time to go to temple or religious cerinimies
I think I have goid upbringing, I know good or bad, I know how I can make a diffrence in someone’s life or help anyone who ever I can. I do lot if charity work , infect many summer’s I have traveled in 3rd world country for charity work with my own expense
Only thing is I am not ready to be a nun right now want to explore the world
I love yours and amaica’s advice and your love and affection
My mom does not go regularly because she travel and when she come back all she says she want to sleep, she started to go much more after my dad , as much as she can
Thanks again, will go back tomorrow , came home to go to temple this week, actually my mom was surprise to see why I want to go to temple, because I always make an excuse
Take care wish everyone the best
I have to tell you , one tine I went India with my mom , she visited a relative
They ask my mom so do you keep fast , go to temple everyday in USA , because it is important
My mom replied , you keep fast you go to temple these things you do for your salvation , you do for yourself, but what do you do for others, I keep fast and go to temple when ever I can go but frist I feel my priority , if someone need help , I would like to do that frist, other wise I will be restless , she visit nursing home , take cookies fir elderly or sox she put in their feets
I spent whole day in nursing home on my birthday since I lost my dad
I am soory , for all this nonscence lecture
Hello kriss I am still in temple going to serve parsad in few minute, I have a little headache
Mom say we can’t go without parsad
My mom sings these two bhajans,too and are very very nice
Very soothing
When group if friends sings sound verb nice
Thanks
I am not into bhajans and religious thing that much, my mom is
I got into cause of suni’s prayers
Thanks
Kris .. Where is you G V .. Getting a new one I guess
Kris please try to be here little more often..
Thanks for your cooperation..Someone said we
Have imaginary friends and wasting precious time..
Honestly I prefer to be here some times rather than with them..
My SIL.. Probably want me to drive her around and then
Create some confusion..KR said you relax and whatever makes
You happy.. You do.. It’s your life your time..Your business..
Kris find that you are very quiet .. Missing the old Kris..
SJ.. You need to rest .. You really did puja..
How sweet of you.. Big hug and kiss..
Last few days was too hectic..
Prayers is finished now.. Relax.. breath deeply ..
SJ you were really there for her .. Heart and soul..
It was really wonderful planning puja with you..
Was dressed and waiting on KR ..
Came here to check..About to leave .. Bye..
Hello everyone, our Suni is having a prayer for her mom for our mom, I am in car with my mom for temple
Let’s everyone bow their head and say together
Ma tujay shat shat pranam
Hay am tujay shat shat pranam
And close you eyes and what ever prayer or religious words or and quotes or saying
Just think in your heart as a tribute, and pray for our Suni to be a strong, healthy and to have a happy and healthy life
Love
Thank You very much SJ..Felt good saying that prayers..
Puja just finished… So I will have to give Dahshana to Swamiji..
take Artie .. receive prasadam..and leave.. I have another
Function to attend this afternoon..Cannot stay to eat..
But the food that SJ ordered look just great.. Smelling good..
Well it was nice meeting all of you.. Mwah.. Mwah.. Mwah..
Cannot come too often on the forum.. Have joined the Gym..
So Kris .. Trin.. SJ.. MU.. Len .. Afresh.. Suni.. You guys will
Keep the forum alive with your contributions..
SJ.. You and Suni will have to start planning Trin wedding..
Suni.. I am so sorry to have to leave early.. Son is returning
from the US today and he asked us to represent him at a
Function this afternoon…
I must congratulate you my dear you did an excellent job..
The puja was very devotional.. You had a lovely well discipline
group of guest.. You look beautiful and still radiant with the Grace and Blessings
that your Ma and Swamiji bestowed upon you and know that You are not alone..
Ma.. Swamiji.. And all of us will be here for you.. Hug.. Kiss.. Namaste..
Hmm.. Prasadam With fruits from Afresh place is tasting very nice.. God Bless..
Hey guys how r u all … Can anyone please tell me why I can’t watch any videos it comes like something u have to be a member . How can I be a member then ???? Btw I missed all of u … And is anyone here on INSTAGRAM
Yah AMAICA I was thinking the same, we all are doing make believe puja, infect all that planning and preparations it feels we are really meeting with each other on suni’s puja
We will hug and hug and kiss, and say oh my god finally
What will be the reaction , I will say which one is kriss which one is AMAICA , but I think I will recognize
Some how your heart can tell , as soon as kriss say swami Jee I will say oh she is kris
Triny I picture having a brand name big pocket book, high heels , and will say , oh I have to leave early can’t stay for lunch have a flight to catch for business or I am meeting BF, I will know that us trinty
Lennor will say oh our princess kritika our hero GC
Affresh will be holding various dry fruits and coming screaming , guys I need a hug , my hands are tried can you hold these baskets
Suni will be so soft and gentle and kinder and will say guys please come in , have some thing to drink
All of you must be tired
AMAICA will have pretty smile open big arm looking pretty in her crimson sari and long big earring
I have short hair will be in white chudidar suit
Will say oh finally , man wow we all are here can you believe that
MU raji GEETHA,sia , arthi ,Apple, trinty we invite everyone
That Rama Krishna bhajan is very nice everyone can sing
I am home now , my mom is sleeping , i will go tomorrow to temple
Yes SJ, I will be wearing a soft Japanese designer sari swami ji will be in orange and shall be chanting Hare Raam san kirtan Amaica will be lead singer we will all help out with the chores after having a hearty lunch,well, the prayers is on so we must be quiet now, shhh, lay attention,
SJ… That was clean…
I will be the most senior in the group I hope..
But you did not identify our MU.. Let me help..
Nah man.. This ent fair.. Nobody sent me an Indian wear..
Look wat I have to wear..
Kris.. We all will chant together..
Trin.. Where are you hiding..Not seeing you around..
I am not speaking to Lenor..
Note passing around…
Swamie want us to chorus him.. Kris .. SJ.. Take the mike..
SJ.. Mom will sing 2 bhajans after..
Trin. MU.and Lenor..will do Hym..
Trin….Khasedha (optional)
Next we continue with chants.. Afresh will lead..
Will call Suni to give a Message and vote of thanks..
Food prayer.. Amaica..Bramha Aur Pranam..
Dear Suni
I know you will not have time tomorrow I am going home and will go to temple too, but if you are reading a tribute to mom
This is from me
Dear suni’s mom you are our mom too, psychially you are not here but you are with us, always will be you will be so proud it see , what beautiful and intelligent woman Suni gas become
Suni is very lucky have you as a mom who raised her si beautifully . Suni us a very talented girl, we talk many time about you and you become part of us mom too, show your guiding and Devine light to Suni and all of us so we find a right oath to walk on
We all love you,stay in peace where ever you are
This just 2 prayer lines
Tum say laggi Lagan, lalo apnay shran paras piyra
Meto meto Jee sanmati hamara
Means God I want to devote my puja in your feet
Please rake me in your shadow and help me guide me so I don’t choose wrong path
Shanti mantra
Om NAMO shanti
Om NAMO shanti
NAMO NAMO shanti
NAMO shanti 5 times
Love you Suni ,
Dear AMAICA , thank you , so we all are set , not young to go crazy
We all will picture tomorrow at 10am, we are walking suni’s house
There are white bed sheet on floor with some cushion
There is a big table which gas suni’s moms photo with big fresh roses harkened
Some in scence and puja thali , flowers, dry fruits and halva for parsad , and a seat fir swami Jee
Everyone will take care of their duties (has been assigned)
We gonna be quite and should listen swamijee
After puja g finish will do arthi and will sing some bhjan togather and tribute to suni’s mom
And gave parsad to everone
Than lunch will be served
Tea coffee and than we all become chatter box to cheer Suni
And clean up time , everone please bring apron
All of us will clean
Affresh will give momentoo token to everyone
Dear Afresh , thank you so much for your tom and jerry spike kind of affection
I guess you know me better sometime my screem work some time you test me real hard
I am glad you are there, pv1 ended or not did not cars that much , but we found friends love and affection no one can beat that
These days I am into Jodha Akbar I become so obsess with jA many time same epic I watch several time , I watch SC also
My god rajat Tokas he us 22 year old what a talent he has to play akbar awesome acting he is so handsome, but he is short only 5.6 ft and he build his mussels so much according to play the character he did several show like PRC , a Shia Tere bin , sai baba . I fell in love with his character he us a very talented guy started to act when he was 8 he won several award
I feel bad for GC cause of his bad reputation he did not get any work he lost NB 6 too
Now debina pisses him and keep him home
He is doing another reality show kkk
Well live to see you my darling , can’t wait to see when my tom jerry spike and 3 idiot team reunite
Take care at lease not for me but for Suni please be there , she feel close and look for you
I know my looking does not count
SJ.. I am happy to see you.. I don’t want to make Suni cry.. Only after I posted
It that I realized it might get her emotional.. And that was not my intention..
It is a song that I love and usually sing at Sat Sangh..
But I do know the departed soul will be happy to hear her daughter..
… It being the final prayers .. The love and intentions are most
important ..
Changed Sayee to Dear.. Not sure whether they believe in Sai..
I have asked the relevant authorities to remove it..
Yes Amaica, did see Afreesh, forgot to acknowledge her,
Well I hope SJ share these bhajans with her mom, they know Hindi so it will be easy to understand,
Thanks for the invite and the opportunity to tpdo this, I will be singing some holi kirtans
Checking for a nice one I know Sj mom might appreciate it.
Hi all, SJ Amaica, I accept,
SJ this one is for your mom, whe know Hindi ? http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yueSSaC2xqs http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yueSSaC2xqs
There are lots and lots of kirtans and lecture discourses from all the Holy scriptures of Santana Dharm your mom can listen to and get solace then she would not be that sad, it’s been a very long time and these have helped me through a lot and made me understand a lot about the human birth. I will now post some kirtan for Suni,
Kris.. Trin..MU..Did you not see Afresh..
Please check lower down..and practice
your songs.. Prayers start early so go to the
hair dresser today.. and bring some flower
to offer..There’s going to be a table at the
Entrance of the hall or puja location with her
Mom’s picture.. Shri Krishna murthy..
An arrangement with beautiful roses ..
a lighted deya..and incense burning.. Flower
can be offered there with a prayer..
Thanks kris for thinking and sending all these beautiful lectures, my mom listen some time
We have induan channel , all these lectures comes on Sunday
AMAICA thanks for everything , may br psychially we are not there but we all will be there mently
For our dear Suni , after tomorrow may be she will have some peace in her mind, like at least she did what she suppose to do
And at least we all could think for some prayers anfpd religious things, to clean our heart too
Because in our busy life , we always forget these things, when ever I come home listen all these lectures from my mom , go to temple , pray front of God, I keep making ex causes
I told you I am gonna wear a simple white Cotten chudidar , I am coming home tonight
Will go to temple with my mom tomorrow(Saturday) mom told me there is a puja from 10 to 1 pm and than some offerings
Thanks again for all the love and support you always give us
Punar Vivah 1 is on its way to becoming one of the most watch Indian tv series on YouTube.
PV1 is the only serial dubbed in languages such as Arabic,French,Portuguese and could be soon in Russian.
KS and GC are more popular than the fellow actors who’s shows are still on air. Aarti and Yash continue to top viewer polls.
All I have to say is darn you zeetv!!
You and the mittals to away a great show and left us with a bunch of hogwash on our tv!!!!!
I’ve tried to watch other serials,but it’s no use KS and GC and those kids spoiled me.
Nothing can compare to Punar Vivah.
Some episodes of Pv have over 80k likes on YT.
HAPPY FRIDAY TO ALL AND BE BLESSED AND SPREAD LOVE AND SMILES
Almost forgot the people at zee who was responsible for our collective heart break have been sacked. Due to the failure of many of its shows.Yay!!!
The Times of India called the ending of PV1. One of the biggest fumbles in Indian tv history.
AMAICA I have a suggestion
On Saturday sunis mom’s prayer day I want to ask all forum friend please write few bhajans lines
Everyone please at-least on bhajan line so our prayer can get to Suni
Like I would say
Hamkoo Mann JEE shakti dena , Mann vujay karay, doosaray kee jai say PHALAY khudha koo jai karay
Means god please give us mental strength , before we admire someone we should make admirable to ourselves
AMAICA can you send thus message to everyone , that please write everyone either 1 bhajan line or good saying for Saturday on suni’s moms prayer because you have strong voice , everyone will listen to you please
SJ…
The forum friends listen and supports each other
Especially Suni… She is the special one here..
However.. That’s an excellent idea.. You are truly a planner..
Since you are so nice I’ll convey the message again..
Kris.. Trin… MU..Lenor..Afresh..Raji.. Aliyah.. Pree.. Apple..
Anu..Pat..Zac.. Other Friends of Suni…
SJ has suggested that we each send Suni a prayer..
The prayers is on Saturday 8th March from 9.00am
to 11.45am.
Friends this is a humble request and it will mean a lot
To Suni..Let us do something nice for our friend…
.The prayer can be .Hindu.. Muslim.. Christian…Other..
We all love Suni.. Let us show her that we do care..
Hi everyone……♡♥♡♥♡
How are you guys?…..
Suni…I know you wanted me to present here, otherwise there wouldn’t be such question for which you know the answers already.
Sj…. you didn’t give me enough work to do at suni’s home, give me some more work except moral support
Amaica….. my dearest sister, I know your depth of love, actually I didn’t have any valid reason or justifications for my absence, believe me I really don’t know the real reason behind it…whatsoever, I will try my best hereafter….
suni….though the intention behind your question are purposeful, I wanted to share my feelings relevant to that ” Memories” , “Cries”…
The creator has created each human with unique purpose whereby the changes and challenges are interconnected in our lives despite our desires and interest.
Is that we designed as weak livings or developed weaknesses into ourselves through bonds and memories?
We have no clues about the origin of our DESIRES & PASSION, how it strikes within us?…who wants it?…is it mind or heart or soul..yes, we are clueless , don’t know the answer clearly.
We have no idea about future , not sure whether we would get up tomorrow morning without any struggles and pain.
Who we are?…why we took birth in the universe?…what is our purpose on life?…if we can find the answers to these questions we may focus our vision in a peaceful way but unfortunately the devil surrounded us never allow to think what is required.
Challenges are designed exclusively for human growth but it’s not that easy to accept….because devil don’t want us to grow
Changes are unavoidable in the lifespan of human but we don’t feel secured with changes….because devil preach us different theory, therefore we try very hard to make our life stagnant.
CURSE OF MEMORY. …yes, I should say this whenever my memory doesn’t give me joyful thoughts. Who is the in charge of memory?…the MIND
who is constantly trying to bring those finished chapters into our new day without boring? ?…..
when my memory can’t cherish me forever, then why don’t I delete it?…. again next question HOW???….is that easy?… no not really easy but it’s not impossible
Finally…..we shouldn’t complain our creator for memory, in fact we should thank for giving us “forgetfulness” in our lives
And then crying is a natural process, we should cry if it is necessary…. crying baby fed first….it’s nothing like a strong person shouldn’t cry…if person suppress Cries then he/she tries to live against nature.
Affresh I think I am going to get a heart attack , I know I am too young to get heart atrack but these sudden shock can play number on those who have a very sensitive heart
How I can sign work or chors to unreliable people
I am really very very upset, Affresh if there is anything even if we cannot help
You can share , or at least say hello once in a while, it guve me so much pain not knowing you are ok or not, well who the am I to think of you, I am nky one just putting my nose in people’s business
I really miss you , and Suni, these days I was thinking of Suni
You are the only one can help Suni she us so much close to you
I know ,how I am on 9/11 time allthough it us 12 year, but still so fresh
List my dad ans seeing my mom sad all time , make me more upset , mom doesnot think that
But for Suni it is so feast, I am glad you are there
If youh get time think in back of your head because I am nit in your front head
I love you and miss you
There might be error in typing and in auto correct, I have to go for a round in few minute
Please rake care of Suni
I mean for Suni it is so fresh not feast ,I should take my iPad from auto correct, actually this is AnnaS I iAd I will go this weekend home to get my stuff
SJ..
Just returned from Sat Sang..
I was anxious to see your reaction..
You came down a bit harsh on her though
but Afresh of all people will understand..
She is lucky and blessed to have a friend
like you.. You are too much SJ.. Love you..
AMAICA you are little too kind, there should be someone , to tell Affresh how I feel
Don’t say I am too harsh on her, I have a right to do that
When we love someone to an extent , I gave to screme my feelling, don’t worry Affresh will survive
AMAICA no need to wash dishes , we can keep good qualities of paper plates and spoons
That way we can spent more time with Suni
We will spent more tie in puja attending suni’s guest singing all the bhajan
Later we will fold all the sheets from floor, take care of all left over food
And clean what ever needed and will sit togather to cheer Suni
OKay SJ ..Then I will wear my sari and pretty up myself..
Should I bring my group musicians.. If we are to sing bhajans..
MU will sing Hyms.. Kris .. Afresh..and the two of us will do
Chants .. Trin will do Khasidha..Your Mom will do film Bhajans..
Wow.. Suni will be shocked..
SJ .. How you did not think of this..I have a projector and screen
We can put it up and while Puja and Bhajans is going on we can
show pictures of Suni’s Mom and her family in happier days..
You will remind Afresh to bring tokens to give out for
this special one year Prayers..Suni can’t think of everything..
She can get whatever is readily available in her place..
You know Afresh is an Arab Princess and may want to give out
really beautiful expensive tokens…let’s leave it to her..
F
Oh AMAICA you are so wonderful, how beautifully you convey the message, I am blessed we are blessed to have you , I mean that
Yes AMAICA that is a very good idea after the puja we can see suni’s mom on slide show
Ans will laugh and cry, I will make some tea at suni’s house , I learned to make good tea with cardmum faver, I can’t cook well don’t know well
Yah bhajan”s friend us a very good idea , Suni has a big heart she will welcome all of yes with open arms
Mom my can sing filmy and non filmy both , actually she used to sing gazals but after my dad she foes nf sung romantic songs, if she hear romantic songs, she start crying, she sings sad songs in party
Lately she sang sings from the movie ashqui 2 ,movie
Sun RAHA hay tu roo rahi hu may
Means are you listening , I am crying
I hope Suni does not get upset for all of our planning, thus us all to cheer her up
Many people say , when person is gone we should not cry or think should be happy
How can it be possibble , our lived I be leave so much vacume in our lives
We are nky god or saint , we are human being , many tine I think , my mom is so nice she never hurt anyone except scooled in us , she is so caring to everone always think for other never for herself, why she us in so much pain , cause of moms pain our life us nit normal , my sister stop coming home , she says , I can’t rake it
Sometime when my mom says in depressing voice oh one less day to live
This is so sad, my mom us so obsess with my dad , like napolian Bonaparte was with hus mistress
I am sad too, but if my mom can be happy a little , I can feel little better
Anyway , i am sorry this should not be for me .
Affresh you need to bring some puja token to give to guest like nah be candle, or dual or may be little somthing
Or may be incence to give as a token of one year prayer along with some fruits and dry fruits
Ok Sj……DONE….I will bring several types of dried fruits from my place because the taste are guaranteed.
Amaica dear…. don’t worry about Sj’s complaints and nice words, indeed I deserve it….hahaha
when Sj used to get hyper, I do enjoy her love and possessiveness….. Sj is our ‘Possessive Queen’. She knows very well how much I concerned about her but still she always enjoyed by teasing my love for her. That’s her style which I had noticed from the beginning of our friendship…..so, it doesn’t matter
Please Amaica don’t make me laugh by your appraisals…..I couldn’t tolerate those powerful words for describing my lazy attitude. We all are blessed to have you in our life through pv1, I don’t miss pv1 and also Gc &Ks but I should Thank pv1 for giving you people into my life.
Sj. …nowadays I’m watching few serials regularly , Ranrasiya, JA, SC, IPKND2, IPKND1, GEET, MB
and also some irregular serials like QH, YE Hai mohabateen, dumari pakki (Ansh is there)….now tell me how do I find time to chat with you……ha ha ha ha ha…..♡♥♡♥♡
Amaica , I thank you so much for your kindness and support , but can I please say just one thing 🙂 . . Everyone here is special , everyone unique . I’m just happy to be amongst all you lovely people and to know your love .
SJ , Kris thank you for the bhanjans .
Trinity , MU you’re always awesome . .
Lenor , Pat your missing again 😐 . .
I can’t read everything here just yet , I took a cursory look .
Namaste Raji , Vanakam Geetha . .
I thank you all for your presence in my life . .and for your love . . you always have mine .
Take care and wish you all the best .
Amaica everything is going just fine with al the kind blessings . 🙂
SJ…Please don’t shower me with such nice words.. Help me
Instead so my ego don’t inflate..
Suni will be very appreciative of our kind gesture.. We have
A. Powerful PA system..also a sound technician .. Our voices
all blended together will surly sound great..Give good vibrations..
Afresh.. I mean everything that I say.. Thanks to you all for
Encouraging me to share my thoughts about PV 1 … Else
I would have missed the opportunity of meeting such wonderful
Friends…After that court matter.. I just want peace and love to flow..
Afresh.. The tokens are a good idea.. But you may not have the
Time to arrange.. Therefore I will take it upon myself to have my
Friend print a bookmark .. Foot Prints In The Sands.. In memory
Of Suni’s Mom..I will use white glossy board.. Print in black ..
on both sides… One side message..the other side Mom’s
Name… Date of prayers.. And acknowledgement .
Images of The Lord Holding Suni’s Mom In His Arms in pink or lilac..
Pink ribbon with fringe tied to book mark..
That’s my contribution..
I will sing Tumaa binathi suno sabaki ..khaliyaan karo jagatha..
Suni… That is truly a gesture of love… Taking time to let us know all is well ..
Each of us will be with you in spirit.. to give you the strength and the support..
You place God in front.. Offer everything to Him..And be strong..Be happy..
Everything will work out smoothly.. Love You Always.
Good morning all,
Amaica in this age of Kaliyug it is nearly impossible to perform any rights and rituals in the correct way, to many restrictions, that is why or dearly beloved Shre Krishna has made it so easy for ust to just do Roop Dhyan, and meditate on the Devine form of the beloved, surrender your mind to the almighty God and leave everything in his hands, he will take care of each and every aspect of your life.
There are so many rituals to fulfill, that we cannot even begin to fulfill, so we must prepare ourselves while we are alive, so if our children cannot fulfill the requirements, well of course they can never be fulfilled,
So we must do for ourselves before we die so we will be taken care of after death.
And children nowadays thinks all this is jumbo jumbo, I’m glad Suni is doing her part, she will be benefited in the long run to.
Take care everyone,
Kris.
. I have also heard that and know of
Some people who did it… They can also
do everything on the Bandaara day.
So no need for the six and one year prayers..
SJ..
Read the translation .. It’s most appropriate..
Suni will like it.. Hope she visits before the puja..
Trin.. Hope you have a pleasant and comfortable day..
MU..You are a powerful woman..You will achieve your goals..
Just Request.. Believe.. and Receive..Of course it comes
with hard work and dedication..When one door closes others
are there to open and explore..
Suni.. May The Lord continue to give you the strength and courage
to complete the prayers successfully..You are indeed blessed..
Your ancestors will be very happy with you..and play SJ.. Mom’s song..
Well I had a wonderful time with my cousins and sis in laws.
Back out to work today no cool down on the beach for me.
I after all my partying over the last two days my feet are killing me,but I had to go and wear heels. I think my high heel obsession will be death of me.
Who could I get to rub my feet?
Bliss was fun had a really nice time, and saw alot of people I did not see in a long time.
One complaint I’ve, Women need to have more self respect!!!!
Amaica,Kris the bf went fishing over the carnival,and he called and told me he’s bringing home a lot of fish and wants me to cook!?
I don’t understand him, I can barely cook rice,he want me to cook fish? I think he and his friends enjoy finding new ways to torture me.
Suni this bhajan for your moms prayer My mom sing a lot this is from one of the movie beautiful Lyrics
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aye maalik tere bande hum ayese ho humaare karam
nekee par chale, aaur badee se tale, taankee hasate huye nikale dam
ye andheraa ghanaa chhaa rahaa, teraa insaan ghabaraa rahaa
ho rahaa bekhabar, kuchh naa aataa najar, sukh kaa sooraj chhoopaa jaa rahaa
hai teree roshanee mein jo dam to amaawas ko kar de poonam
badaa kamajor hain aadamee, abhee laakhon hain is mein kamee
par too jo khadaa, hain dayaaloo badaa, teree kirapaa se dharatee thamee
diyaa toone humei jab janam too hee zelegaa hum sab ke gam
jab julmon kaa ho saamanaa, tab too hee humei thaamanaa
wo buraee kare, hum bhalaaee bhare, naheen badale kee ho kaamanaa
badh uthhe pyaar kaa har kadam aaur mite bair kaa ye bharam
Trinity …
I totally agree with you… About women having more self respect..
Nothing is wrong with having a good time but do it with some dignity..
I am glad that you like the prayer.. Hope the fish meal turned out great..
Kris..
Thanks…So many questions and no answers..Thought of Suni…it will
Be tough for her… Hindus have too many rituals when someone dies..
My children will not be able to do these type of prayers for us..
Suni’s Mom is very lucky.. To have a young daughter willing to do the prayers..
Surely she had some good merits stored up.. Suni will also gain eventually..
SJ..
Just listened to the song… I remembered it.. It’s beautiful..
Is it possible to post the meaning…Thank your Mom from forum friends..
If this is the type of film songs your Mom sings .. She has to be a professional
singer… Suni is also an excellent singer…
MU… Hope you read the prayer..
Afresh.. Still waiting..
AMAICA
Mom told me briefly
Meaning if the whole thing us
God we all are your children
We should do good deed, walk of way of honesty , and stay away frim all the evil and bad thing
So when we departure from this wired , we gave no guild and depart our life with happiness
There is so much darkness in this world, I get scared sometime you are the only one can show us right oath and your Devine light to fight against evil
When ever there are evil Happened in thus works, you took avatar and guild us , so please show us your Devine light so we could be a good and kind human being
And seek way of honesty and wake on honesty way
We are week We need your strength time be a good human being
I don’t remember anymore
But that is the basic message
What are you wearing on suni’s puja , I am gonna wear white cotton chudidar suit
We can make believe we are with Suni on her puja
Thanks love
SJ.. Thanks very much for the explanation..
I will learn to sing this song… Then I’ll sing it
In my puja room ..
Well let’ us see.. What to wear at the puja.
I will wear a crimson sari with flat gold lace
patterned boarder and flat gold Paloo..
simple accessories to compliment the sari..
I love to wear long earrings with my saris.
Second option SJ .. I ‘ll wear a simple sharwal
No need to dress up .. Put a apron in my bag..
And help Suni serve the meals or even help her
wash the dishes..I think this is a better option..
AMAICA wear sari will be nice suni’s mom will be happy to see, how suni’s friend think of her
Bring your apron in bag, I will bring mine, allthough I am not good in cleaning but will learn
From you and will follow your order
I can picture you in crimson sari will look really nice with gold pallu
I am gonna wear just cotton white Chaudhary suit will be simple and easy to carry
I will bring done incence too , I always burn in my form room, I have sandalwood Kevera ,and musk we will burn them front of puja
I am happy Affresh showed up , she need a screem , my throat and brain started to hurt calling
Her and youh are telling me I am to hard on her
I feel like beating her and feel hugging her too
SJ… I am absolutely sure that if all our plans are implemented
The results will be just wonderful..Just think if we were really
Meeting in person for the first time at Suni’s prayers… What will
be the reaction ..We will hug and kiss … And say .. Oh my .. You
are so pretty … Oh my God SJ after all this time I finally have the
Opportunity to meet you.. Mwah.. Mwah..Come let’s meet Kris.. MU..
Trin .. Afresh and Lenor..Oh and there’s Suni.. doing her puja..She’s
So beautiful and so young.. We will meet her after puja.. Let’s now
Sit on stage and do our bhajans..We start with Ganesh mantras..
Guru bhajan.. Devi bhajans.. Then chants
Om Shanthi .. Om Shanthi …Om Shanthi Om..
Om Shanthi Om… Om Shanthi Om ..
Om Shanthi.. Om Shanthi ..Om Shanthi Om..
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Hare Rama Hare Rama.. Rama Rama Hare Hare..
Hare Krishana .. Hare Krishana.. Krishna Krishna.. Hare Hare..
Hare Rama——————-higher note..
Hare Krishna—————-higher note..
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Shiva Chants….Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay… Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay..
Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay.. Om Shiva Hari Om Shivay.. Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay..
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Next….
Bhajans.. Hyms.. Ghazal.. Film song .. Other..
Closing prayer… End…
Show me the path to comfort,the way to acceptance,
loss has visited my life,and I have been devastated,
my hopes and beliefs have been challenged
sadness waits for me at every turn..
May I see beyond the pain, beyond loss,
Moving beyond the sadness that now engulfs me,
I am beginning to heal and accept that the loss is real.
Bless my spirit with hopes and understanding,
help me to know that all lives contain sorrow,
accepting that my life is blessed, even in loss.
Comfort comes to me now, as I begin to accept,
time is beginning to heal me,slowly and gently,
a soft smile is preparing to cross my lips
Bless me now,as I accept, grieve and heal.
Thank you Amaica sis, you are wee ally awesome, I was feeling a little down, I just spoke to one of my sisters from satsangh, I felt better and then I read you prayer and felt even better, thank you for being here for use,
Thake care everyone.
Kris … Guess you got a lot of house work to catch up with..
Did you see Trin’s band Bliss?..I actually missed it.. saw the
end but the cameras was more on the commentators.. So sorry..
No dear, was envolved all day Monday in satsangh and did so much laundry yesterday, saw some bands in San Fernando, this year was really nice here, beautiful costumes totally different from the string clothing in pos. Did not look at tv at all, did you see the pics with the two women wining down on two police, it was so funny, lol, only in Trinidad yes.
Darling Suni… Don’t worry Afreesh will be here soon.
I also look forward to her reply to your questions..
SJ has been very concerned about you.. Suni I think
you both should make arrangements to meet in the US..
Her love is genuine..I am available whenever you are ready..
Afreesh , I have a question for you yaar . .
If God wanted us to move on , to just forget and let things be , to go with the flow , then why did he give us tears ?
Why are did he give us memories ?
It seems like us humans were designed poorly 😐 . .
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Kris
March 11, 06:17Hi all, trins, just read your post on the MIL, well, just pretend she does not exist and since her son cut all ties with her, then you will not be obligated to to see her in the future, if you know she will be somewhere, keep your distance, just to avoid her saying things that will upset the bf,
Believe me, mine is getting good beans from the son and DIL in the house, but yet I am the worst one, she still don’t want my husband and I at her home, the DIL home left her husband went to live with someone else just two streets away, she came back and she is the best thing out, we have to treat her with respect and don’t make noise upstairs because she resting downstairs, well, I keeping far away from them. Everybody in the city who knows, and I mean almost everybody in the offices sround knows, well he is the laughing stock of the city now,
And before I got married my mil had loads of restrictions to tell me about going satsangh and retest by a certain persons house, she said oh leople would talk and accuse me of being with man etc, and if I have to marry her son I have to stop that, well yuh girl eh taking that from no body, I told her off, nicely
, yet now she saying I quarrel with her. Well now she knows what real quarrel is. And it’s been over 18 years I’m married, I still going by that persons house for satsangh etc, and not a soul north south east or west of Trinidad can say a word about me with regards to that issue. I should let her know that. Because she still saying I quarrel with her.
Well sorry for ranting people. Just that this mil thing came up and it’s happening now but I’m glad her son knows what she really is. So Trinity don’t swear it, your bf in the same boat with you, sail into the sunset together and be happy.
Trinty
March 11, 08:33Hi Kris thanks for dat.
I really don’t understand these women,but I’m done wasting precious time and entry on her.
Kris so many times I wanted to tell her “Hul yuh mudda so and so” but for the bf I kept cool.
But now I’m so over it.
She also accused me of having and affair when I went to Dubai.
It takes to much energy to be angry,and I done wasting my energy on fruitless endeavors.
Sometimes a good rant is what we need so don’t apologize.
RAGHNEE
March 11, 05:58Hey kris di thnQ …. Guys my parents were in India in feb but they liked it very much only they were sad everywhere u had poor people my mom specially felt bad …. They went to Delhi Jaipur Rajasthan Mumbai riskikhesh haridwar Chandigarh . They went to a gurdwara to a temple .to different places
Kris
March 11, 06:18Hi Raghzz yeah, I know what you mean.
How is school
Trinty
March 10, 20:55If the grass is greener on the other side
It’s because they take care of it.
SJ
March 10, 22:09Just came back , wanted to check on you
Dear Suni how are you my darling, I hope ,you feel little relaxed after the puja and rested a bit
We love and are blessed to have you in our lives
Amaica
March 10, 22:22Trin.. I hope I did not upset you with my advice..
It’s just that I find she is not releasing her son to
live his life with the woman he loves….
Trinty
March 10, 18:37What did I do to deserve this woman as my future MIL?!
Sunday was my bf aunt birthday so she invited us to her home to spend the day with her and the rest of their family. We were both apprehensive at first cause we knew his mom will be their,but I told him lets go cause its your family and they want us to be their.
Everything was goin well with his aunt uncles and his cousins,we where chatting about the wedding and everything that goes along with it. It was goin well until she came and started her stupidity again.
It got worst as the day went along with her vail insults and her usual crappy behavior towards me,but I kept it together for his sake so he could enjoy being with his family.
I’ve endured enough from this woman from insults about my race my family and her telling me to my face she was happy when I had a miscarriage 2yrs ago.She then decided to make a scene and disrupt her sister bday party.But you know what’s the really sad thing is about her behavior,its the toll it takes on her son,she’s so blinded by her dislike of me she can’t see how she hurts him.
After what she did at the party he told her he doesn’t want her at the wedding. He told me he’s done hoping she will change.
Kris I know u once told me to make sure he keeps in contact with her and not to disrespect her but honestly this on her shoulders now. I supported him when for seven years,when we tried with her we can’t do it anymore. We’re excited to be married and buying our home,and kids in the future,but we can’t keep hoping she’ll change.
I bet you guys are happy you don’t have a MIL like mine.
SJ
March 10, 19:59Trinty don’t burn your blood, why are you burning your blood on your MIL
Just say yes ma yes ma, be little diplomatic, just compromised and di what your heart desire if it is ok with bf
Don’t forget my mom always says when youh marry two family marry too
It us 12 year my dad gone but gm mom still balance both family,somtime my dad side of the family become unreasonable we get very upset, but I tell youh in long run it will be ok
Show GeForce you live her and respect her
Don’t be sorry for Saturday, I mow Jow much your were with us and Suni , she kniws that
I am in Starbucks waitting some friends , this waitting is killing me man…..
Trinty
March 10, 20:23Ur right not to burn my blood {I like that saying}
Sj I’m just tired of her and her antics.
Yeah I guess we all have family drama.
I like how you describe me in your post about my high heels,Sj if I ever go shoe shopping with you, you will runaway screaming.LOL can you say Louis Vuitton pumps.
Enjoy your Starbucks coffee,try not to send the guys crazy! With ur smoking hot self. Haha
SJ
March 10, 22:18Trinity ignor your MIL , or speak to your BF , he should straight her out
Yah Trinity I picture you in high heels with branded big pocketbook , when you keep describing
Meeting and trips
I am 5.5 wear 4inch heels , sometime even bigger , but daily I wear pumps but gave to be stylish
My mom say if you fell in subways you will hurt your face , and will break your nose
Hey this is one life to live, me and my fashion go together
I am not ready to be a nun , want to do all the sins than in my old age will wash them
Trinty
March 10, 17:09Hi all, hope everyone is well.
Sj I’m so sorry about Saturday I had no WiFi service at home.
Kris,amaica,sj you ladies are wonderful!! Thank you for the support u have given to our wonderful friend on Saturday.
Phoenix be blessed and much love to you and ur family.
MU my fantastic fierce strong young woman!
My grandma shared these words with and I’ll share them with you.
“A person comes into your life”
“For a REASON, SEASON OR A LIFETIME”
Enjoy urself at uwi carnival.
Kris
March 10, 18:23Hey Trinity, saw some pics of people in bliss, hmmm wonder if any o dem was u lol
Amaica
March 10, 18:25Trinity…
We were looking out for you.. Knew something
had to be wrong .. However, you should read
SJ’s description of meeting you for the first time..
She will crack you up..You missed out on all the fun..
Your Gran is absolutely correct..Good advice..
Kris .. I will make an effort to look at the show if Prateet
is acting in it .. But Ragu’s younger brother’s role did not
appeal to me..
Suni.. I hope you are taking care of yourself.. Probably
still have guess over.. We are waiting for you.
SJ.. Like you are too tired after the puja.. Okay take rest..
MU.. Hope you are in good spirit..
Afresh.. Diamond princess.. So you have disappeared again..
SJ
March 10, 18:58Dear AMAICA thank you for your beautiful words and strand by me like always
I came back Sunday to my dorm, just work and assignments, weather is getting better will go out for dinner with some friends
I want to ask forgiveness from everyone , making fun of them you were right about MU that was too cute
Take care love for everyone
Amaica
March 10, 20:12SJ..
There is no need to ask forgiveness..
You did absolutely nothing wrong..
You greeted each of us exactly the way you
Visualize us.. and It was humorous .. an exciting..
I don’t think any of us could have done it better..
You did an excellent job.. I applaud you for it..
Trinity..
Just read about the MIL .. Sorry to say but I think she
is sick..It may sound bad.. But if after seven years she
did not accept the relationship and she creates a scene
with you every opportunity she gets.. Then she will not
change and you guys should stay away from her.. If she
Is not invited to the wedding… It’s because of her own
doing..She is capable or perhaps planning to create havoc
on your day.. Make sure you have security..
. Don’t feel bad about it..Some people just don’t change..
Surrender the situation to God.. God will bless your wedding..
Kris
March 10, 11:49Well, time changed, thought I was tuning in to watch QH but instead was SSLP 🙁 Oh well
Hey just found out that Prateek will be taking up a very positive role as Raghu younger brother in DDBEDS, don’t look at it often, but will try it’s not too bad these days,
Trinty
March 10, 17:12Not to bad u say?!
LOL !!!
Hey Kris hope u and ur family are well and in good health.
Miss Unbeleivable
March 09, 22:13so thursday morning i watched as my relationship of almost 4 years got burnt and slashed to the ground in a couple of minutes
i am single….and im happy
unexpected drama unfolded as i expected him who always boast how great he is how much money he earns and how much of a great catch he is turned into something ugly and disgusting by the actions which he did
1) he ended it based on the fact he accused me that i cheated because he read my text messages of a guy friend and i teasing each other. I told him im already giving up intimacy for lent and if i really am why would i be talking to a guy about wining on his waistline and more at uwi carnival.
2) i agreed and i remained silent. Im tired of accusations and feeling emotionally abused by him. His use of words snidely to belittle me. I am an independent blessed young lady who came from a good home. My values are strong and i live by them and do my damn best to be honest.
3) he did something that as a man should never do. I lost respect for him. It wasnt cheating its his attitude and his arrogance to feel entitled to my meagre finances in comparison to his so call big pay cheque and his material wealth. He’s on that hype life. Money cant buy love. When finances are ruined, intimacy iis dead, you have bad health and depressed…love will make you stronger and give hope to do more. He Yes money can make you happy if used in a positive matter yet we cant take wealth to heaven or paradise.
He failed in some aspects of a man: to love protect and provide for his love ones. Love comes with respect
I could rant on and on how much of a bastard and asshole he is. I have forgiven him to the best of how he has hurt me repeatedly, how much ive encouraged him and stuck with him when he had nothing and I wish him all the best.
But no more tears and pain. Im not looking back. I;m moving forward. I have dreams that I want to see and build I have faith that God will guide me.
So i’ve totally cut him off this time. It;s time to end the damn cycle.. I’m tired and I want to relax 🙂
Thank You all for everything 🙂
To UWI carnival I say this week 🙂
Happy Holi to all 🙂
Kris
March 10, 06:15MU, you are a great individual, independent and strong willed, you will survive alone, don’t let anyone put you down, they must love you for who and what you are accept faults and goodness at the same time, it takes a while to get out of a relationship,you will need time to heal and what better time than lent, start anew and put all bitterness in the past,
Remember the only true love in our life is God, he loves us no matter what, unconditional love, no one in this world can love us like Him, so put you faith in him and you will be ok.
Take care my dear, lots of love hugs and kisses.
Amaica
March 10, 09:09MU..
Don’t worry you will rise and shine again…
Everything happens in it’s rightful time for a reason..
There are greater and better things awaiting you..
But in order for it to materialize.. The drama had to play off..
The Good Lord will bless you again with true love,
Joy..laughter, deep sharing and understanding,
happiness and success is awaiting you..
Now you must release him without any lingering resentments
and blaming as he travels on his new journey of life..
Bless him with health and happiness.
Phoenix
March 10, 09:27MU my sister , I can’t read all of your message just yet but what I read sounds somewhat familiar to me with regards to accusations .
Keep strong , trust in God and in your better judgement . .
Everything will be alright . . Love you . .
Miss Unbelievable
March 10, 10:03thanks to all
i needed to hear it
your warm thoughts are melting my cold heart some what lol
love you all have an awesome day 🙂
Pḣöëṉịẍ
March 09, 17:52Thank you all so much for being my support and strength and my family .
The prayers was conducted as planned and everything went well .
Love you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Kris
March 09, 18:49Great to hear that everything went well, take rest dear.
Amaica
March 09, 20:12Namaste ..
Suni.. It is great to hear from you.. Happy to know that everything
Went as planned.. but I am also aware that it was a lot of hard work
on your part…..I am sure you are feeling relaxed and relieved..
.We must give thanks to God..
After you have rested please tell us a bit more..
SJ… Is such a wonderful soul..Suni she is very true to you.. Did girl
Actually went home and made her Mom take her to the temple to
Do puja for your Mom..To me that is extraordinary.. One in a million
Will think to do that.. And she did..I hold her in very high esteem..
Amaica
March 09, 20:18Kris… How true.. Very nice..
I like it very much…
Have to start gym from tomorrow..
Won’t be around as much.. but I
hope you will check in more often..
Kris
March 09, 13:30Thank you KS, always a pleasure to get your updates
I found this and thought to share with all
Why do we need Friends?
Simple..
* To pick us from Railway Station at 2 am.
* To kick us at midnight on your Birthday.
* To make fun of our new outfits.
* To get latest prints of movies.
* To call at 3 am just to say
goodnight.
* For the endless treats.
* To irritate us with missed calls when we are sleeping.
* Sending lot of msgs though we don’t reply.
* Or May be just to disclose him first that u are in love
Pḣöëṉịẍ
March 09, 17:55🙂 nice Kris , thanks .
Amaica
March 09, 20:18Sorry Kris I post in the wrong place..
KS
March 08, 23:08Hi
Jhalak season 7 start but when,i saw some FB this time judge will be change with from DID season 4 beautiful judge Master Shruti Mearchant.
Amaica
March 09, 20:20Thanks KS.. Always a pleasure to hear from you..
KS
March 08, 22:29http://www.india-forums.com/tellybuzz/news-releases/19018-shashi-sumeet-productions-celebrates-international-women-day-wit.htm
Amaica
March 08, 22:55Thank you KS…
How nice of the Mittals to celebrate International
Women’s Day with the ladies of the screen..Lovely photo..
Kris
March 08, 20:50Oh SJ, your mom is a wonderful soul, she has taught you well, doing for others are more important than the keeping fast and doing all these rituals, it becomes naught if you are not kind to others or help the less fortunate, that is what my religious organization does all over the world, we do our little part here, in India we have charity hospital where we give free treatment for all, we also have a school for girls in a rural village where girls are not allowed higher education because the colleges are very far, it is all free and we also provide clothes books bicycles etc. You gain good karma when you do good and think of others.
You and your mom are doing good, keep up the good work, it is always a pleasure to hear from you.
I don’t keep fast, it’s too hard, but I do other things, lots of charity and try to do Sadhana whenever I can, even though I get scolded for not doing everyday and teaching my children to do everyday too.
Good night sleep tight all.
SJ
March 08, 21:20Thanks kriss
My mom set up a charity fund in gm dad’s memory every September 11 my grandparents and my uncles go in villages and get des from DELHI Appolo hospitals and di eye clinic or surgical operation
Varity of work like blood donation camp or open hospital or lab on September 11,12,13
For free testing, we visit orphanage to provide blanket,or sweater or school supplies to
Needy girl or if any poor girls are having problem in wedding to help a little in that
So we do every year, in USA my mom send little fund to the organization where my dad ysed to send
So what ever we can do , from that trust fund , either providing eye glasses, or medication
Or blanket, Iran books or school uniform
My mom does all that , she never spent much in her that us her legacy now
Thanks for understanding, my mom set up that trust fund in my dad’s name since 12 year
It feels very good
SJ
March 08, 21:23Kris I am impressed, you people are doing such a wonderful things
It is more rewarding and feel goid when you do fir others, I am so happy and blessed to get to know you , what a beautiful person you and AMAICA are
How many people must be giving blessing to you and your organization
Gid bless you and your family
Amaica
March 08, 23:26Kris And SJ ..
I enjoyed reading your messages..
It feels good to sit back and just observe sometimes.
SJ.. I agree with Kris about your Mom after reading
your messages. Keep up the good work that you both
are doing.. What a great seva you do on your B Day..
Kris you too.. You have found your path.. God Bless..
Kris
March 08, 18:39Amaica, I donno what happen to my Gv, it gone missing, have to hire the deceive team to go look for it lol
SJ your mom sounds like me sometimes, lol, I love to go Mandir and take part in religious activities. holi is I the air and love singing Holi pads, when you get your own family I’m sure you will gradually gravitate to your religious upbringing, that is because of the good upbringing by your mom.
Well prayers finished, time to rest and relax, Suni will put up her foot, I will start massaging, with hot oil she will relax and fall asleep and when she wakes up in the morning, she would be refreshed and ready for school on Monday.
Amaica I prefer to be here, it’s better than socializing in the world and “minding people’s business” as we say here in good ole TNT, our family here is the best, no confusion and headache,mew help each other when one is down, we lift them up.
We are loving and kind to each other and no outsiders can break up up, well unless of course admin kick us out in due time lol,
Well so long, until, hope to hear two lines from Suni at least in the comig weeks.
SJ
March 08, 19:21Dear kriss and AMAICA thank you , i do not agree that it is a waste of time, sometime I refresh my self talking to you guys
No one have pressure , it feels mental help, we are group of smart and wise people, no one advices bad to anyone, we share good understanding, what psychiatric does, same thing
Anyway , I know kriss, I don’t get time to go to temple or religious cerinimies
I think I have goid upbringing, I know good or bad, I know how I can make a diffrence in someone’s life or help anyone who ever I can. I do lot if charity work , infect many summer’s I have traveled in 3rd world country for charity work with my own expense
Only thing is I am not ready to be a nun right now want to explore the world
I love yours and amaica’s advice and your love and affection
My mom does not go regularly because she travel and when she come back all she says she want to sleep, she started to go much more after my dad , as much as she can
Thanks again, will go back tomorrow , came home to go to temple this week, actually my mom was surprise to see why I want to go to temple, because I always make an excuse
Take care wish everyone the best
I have to tell you , one tine I went India with my mom , she visited a relative
They ask my mom so do you keep fast , go to temple everyday in USA , because it is important
My mom replied , you keep fast you go to temple these things you do for your salvation , you do for yourself, but what do you do for others, I keep fast and go to temple when ever I can go but frist I feel my priority , if someone need help , I would like to do that frist, other wise I will be restless , she visit nursing home , take cookies fir elderly or sox she put in their feets
I spent whole day in nursing home on my birthday since I lost my dad
I am soory , for all this nonscence lecture
Kris
March 08, 12:07Ok so these are some more of my favorites for Suni s mom.
http://www.radhamadhavsociety.org/teachings/essence-of-hindu-philosophy
http://www.radhamadhavsociety.org/teachings/essence-of-hindu-philosophy
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2fBI-TNT-Yk
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=F-5irtyJT9o
Suni whenever you get the chance to listen
SJ
March 08, 13:52Hello kriss I am still in temple going to serve parsad in few minute, I have a little headache
Mom say we can’t go without parsad
My mom sings these two bhajans,too and are very very nice
Very soothing
When group if friends sings sound verb nice
Thanks
I am not into bhajans and religious thing that much, my mom is
I got into cause of suni’s prayers
Thanks
Amaica
March 08, 15:12Kris .. Where is you G V .. Getting a new one I guess
Kris please try to be here little more often..
Thanks for your cooperation..Someone said we
Have imaginary friends and wasting precious time..
Honestly I prefer to be here some times rather than with them..
My SIL.. Probably want me to drive her around and then
Create some confusion..KR said you relax and whatever makes
You happy.. You do.. It’s your life your time..Your business..
Kris find that you are very quiet .. Missing the old Kris..
SJ.. You need to rest .. You really did puja..
How sweet of you.. Big hug and kiss..
Last few days was too hectic..
Prayers is finished now.. Relax.. breath deeply ..
SJ you were really there for her .. Heart and soul..
It was really wonderful planning puja with you..
Was dressed and waiting on KR ..
Came here to check..About to leave .. Bye..
SJ
March 08, 10:33Hello everyone, our Suni is having a prayer for her mom for our mom, I am in car with my mom for temple
Let’s everyone bow their head and say together
Ma tujay shat shat pranam
Hay am tujay shat shat pranam
And close you eyes and what ever prayer or religious words or and quotes or saying
Just think in your heart as a tribute, and pray for our Suni to be a strong, healthy and to have a happy and healthy life
Love
SJ
March 08, 10:34This is ma not am , typing in car
Amaica
March 08, 11:12Thank You very much SJ..Felt good saying that prayers..
Puja just finished… So I will have to give Dahshana to Swamiji..
take Artie .. receive prasadam..and leave.. I have another
Function to attend this afternoon..Cannot stay to eat..
But the food that SJ ordered look just great.. Smelling good..
Well it was nice meeting all of you.. Mwah.. Mwah.. Mwah..
Cannot come too often on the forum.. Have joined the Gym..
So Kris .. Trin.. SJ.. MU.. Len .. Afresh.. Suni.. You guys will
Keep the forum alive with your contributions..
SJ.. You and Suni will have to start planning Trin wedding..
Suni.. I am so sorry to have to leave early.. Son is returning
from the US today and he asked us to represent him at a
Function this afternoon…
I must congratulate you my dear you did an excellent job..
The puja was very devotional.. You had a lovely well discipline
group of guest.. You look beautiful and still radiant with the Grace and Blessings
that your Ma and Swamiji bestowed upon you and know that You are not alone..
Ma.. Swamiji.. And all of us will be here for you.. Hug.. Kiss.. Namaste..
Hmm.. Prasadam With fruits from Afresh place is tasting very nice.. God Bless..
RAGHNEE
March 08, 09:47Hey guys how r u all … Can anyone please tell me why I can’t watch any videos it comes like something u have to be a member . How can I be a member then ???? Btw I missed all of u … And is anyone here on INSTAGRAM
Amaica
March 08, 11:15Namaste Raji…Everyone is at the prayers..
Kris
March 08, 11:24Hi Raghzz, it’s happening to me, I’ve registered, see above on your screen a login option
SJ
March 08, 01:56Yah AMAICA I was thinking the same, we all are doing make believe puja, infect all that planning and preparations it feels we are really meeting with each other on suni’s puja
We will hug and hug and kiss, and say oh my god finally
What will be the reaction , I will say which one is kriss which one is AMAICA , but I think I will recognize
Some how your heart can tell , as soon as kriss say swami Jee I will say oh she is kris
Triny I picture having a brand name big pocket book, high heels , and will say , oh I have to leave early can’t stay for lunch have a flight to catch for business or I am meeting BF, I will know that us trinty
Lennor will say oh our princess kritika our hero GC
Affresh will be holding various dry fruits and coming screaming , guys I need a hug , my hands are tried can you hold these baskets
Suni will be so soft and gentle and kinder and will say guys please come in , have some thing to drink
All of you must be tired
AMAICA will have pretty smile open big arm looking pretty in her crimson sari and long big earring
I have short hair will be in white chudidar suit
Will say oh finally , man wow we all are here can you believe that
MU raji GEETHA,sia , arthi ,Apple, trinty we invite everyone
That Rama Krishna bhajan is very nice everyone can sing
I am home now , my mom is sleeping , i will go tomorrow to temple
Kris
March 08, 07:10Yes SJ, I will be wearing a soft Japanese designer sari swami ji will be in orange and shall be chanting Hare Raam san kirtan Amaica will be lead singer we will all help out with the chores after having a hearty lunch,well, the prayers is on so we must be quiet now, shhh, lay attention,
Amaica
March 08, 08:41Namaste Everyone….Shhh..
SJ… That was clean…
I will be the most senior in the group I hope..
But you did not identify our MU.. Let me help..
Nah man.. This ent fair.. Nobody sent me an Indian wear..
Look wat I have to wear..
Kris.. We all will chant together..
Trin.. Where are you hiding..Not seeing you around..
I am not speaking to Lenor..
Note passing around…
Swamie want us to chorus him.. Kris .. SJ.. Take the mike..
SJ.. Mom will sing 2 bhajans after..
Trin. MU.and Lenor..will do Hym..
Trin….Khasedha (optional)
Next we continue with chants.. Afresh will lead..
Will call Suni to give a Message and vote of thanks..
Food prayer.. Amaica..Bramha Aur Pranam..
Kris
March 07, 18:54I found this today on this site and just wanted to share with you all,SJ my dear, you mom should read this
http://www.radhamadhavsociety.org/teachings/essence-of-hindu-philosophy
SJ
March 07, 20:14Thanks kris, I will print and will give to her, I don’t tell her about forum , she would think I chat whole day and don’t do work
Thank you
SJ
March 07, 11:49Dear Suni
I know you will not have time tomorrow I am going home and will go to temple too, but if you are reading a tribute to mom
This is from me
Dear suni’s mom you are our mom too, psychially you are not here but you are with us, always will be you will be so proud it see , what beautiful and intelligent woman Suni gas become
Suni is very lucky have you as a mom who raised her si beautifully . Suni us a very talented girl, we talk many time about you and you become part of us mom too, show your guiding and Devine light to Suni and all of us so we find a right oath to walk on
We all love you,stay in peace where ever you are
This just 2 prayer lines
Tum say laggi Lagan, lalo apnay shran paras piyra
Meto meto Jee sanmati hamara
Means God I want to devote my puja in your feet
Please rake me in your shadow and help me guide me so I don’t choose wrong path
Shanti mantra
Om NAMO shanti
Om NAMO shanti
NAMO NAMO shanti
NAMO shanti 5 times
Love you Suni ,
SJ
March 07, 11:58Dear AMAICA , thank you , so we all are set , not young to go crazy
We all will picture tomorrow at 10am, we are walking suni’s house
There are white bed sheet on floor with some cushion
There is a big table which gas suni’s moms photo with big fresh roses harkened
Some in scence and puja thali , flowers, dry fruits and halva for parsad , and a seat fir swami Jee
Everyone will take care of their duties (has been assigned)
We gonna be quite and should listen swamijee
After puja g finish will do arthi and will sing some bhjan togather and tribute to suni’s mom
And gave parsad to everone
Than lunch will be served
Tea coffee and than we all become chatter box to cheer Suni
And clean up time , everone please bring apron
All of us will clean
Affresh will give momentoo token to everyone
SJ
March 07, 12:12Dear Afresh , thank you so much for your tom and jerry spike kind of affection
I guess you know me better sometime my screem work some time you test me real hard
I am glad you are there, pv1 ended or not did not cars that much , but we found friends love and affection no one can beat that
These days I am into Jodha Akbar I become so obsess with jA many time same epic I watch several time , I watch SC also
My god rajat Tokas he us 22 year old what a talent he has to play akbar awesome acting he is so handsome, but he is short only 5.6 ft and he build his mussels so much according to play the character he did several show like PRC , a Shia Tere bin , sai baba . I fell in love with his character he us a very talented guy started to act when he was 8 he won several award
I feel bad for GC cause of his bad reputation he did not get any work he lost NB 6 too
Now debina pisses him and keep him home
He is doing another reality show kkk
Well live to see you my darling , can’t wait to see when my tom jerry spike and 3 idiot team reunite
Take care at lease not for me but for Suni please be there , she feel close and look for you
I know my looking does not count
SJ
March 07, 20:16AMAICA you made me cry , so sensitive and smooth full of live and tender loving care
I dint know that many ,
A
March 07, 21:04SJ.. I am happy to see you.. I don’t want to make Suni cry.. Only after I posted
It that I realized it might get her emotional.. And that was not my intention..
It is a song that I love and usually sing at Sat Sangh..
But I do know the departed soul will be happy to hear her daughter..
… It being the final prayers .. The love and intentions are most
important ..
Changed Sayee to Dear.. Not sure whether they believe in Sai..
I have asked the relevant authorities to remove it..
Kris
March 07, 09:56Yes Amaica, did see Afreesh, forgot to acknowledge her,
Well I hope SJ share these bhajans with her mom, they know Hindi so it will be easy to understand,
Thanks for the invite and the opportunity to tpdo this, I will be singing some holi kirtans
Checking for a nice one I know Sj mom might appreciate it.
Kris
March 07, 05:36Hi all, SJ Amaica, I accept,
SJ this one is for your mom, whe know Hindi ?
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yueSSaC2xqs
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yueSSaC2xqs
There are lots and lots of kirtans and lecture discourses from all the Holy scriptures of Santana Dharm your mom can listen to and get solace then she would not be that sad, it’s been a very long time and these have helped me through a lot and made me understand a lot about the human birth. I will now post some kirtan for Suni,
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mi-pDr7ruPc
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NSHsJcQCf2c
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NSHsJcQCf2c
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UevGXAwn1hM
These are some of my favorites
Amaica
March 07, 08:16Kris… Good Morning,
Thanks for accepting ..
Beautiful bhajans.. Lovely and rare Images..
Trin.. Thanks you..I hope MU will be around also..
SJ also want to know what you girls are going to wear..
Think this events planner is easy…
Thanks to Desi TV.. for their kind consideration..
Have a blessed day..
Amaica
March 07, 08:19Sorry..Trin,Thank you .. Not thanks you..
Amaica
March 07, 09:08Kris.. Trin..MU..Did you not see Afresh..
Please check lower down..and practice
your songs.. Prayers start early so go to the
hair dresser today.. and bring some flower
to offer..There’s going to be a table at the
Entrance of the hall or puja location with her
Mom’s picture.. Shri Krishna murthy..
An arrangement with beautiful roses ..
a lighted deya..and incense burning.. Flower
can be offered there with a prayer..
SJ
March 07, 10:06Thanks kris for thinking and sending all these beautiful lectures, my mom listen some time
We have induan channel , all these lectures comes on Sunday
AMAICA thanks for everything , may br psychially we are not there but we all will be there mently
For our dear Suni , after tomorrow may be she will have some peace in her mind, like at least she did what she suppose to do
And at least we all could think for some prayers anfpd religious things, to clean our heart too
Because in our busy life , we always forget these things, when ever I come home listen all these lectures from my mom , go to temple , pray front of God, I keep making ex causes
I told you I am gonna wear a simple white Cotten chudidar , I am coming home tonight
Will go to temple with my mom tomorrow(Saturday) mom told me there is a puja from 10 to 1 pm and than some offerings
Thanks again for all the love and support you always give us
Trinty
March 07, 04:14Some interesting tid bits.
Punar Vivah 1 is on its way to becoming one of the most watch Indian tv series on YouTube.
PV1 is the only serial dubbed in languages such as Arabic,French,Portuguese and could be soon in Russian.
KS and GC are more popular than the fellow actors who’s shows are still on air. Aarti and Yash continue to top viewer polls.
All I have to say is darn you zeetv!!
You and the mittals to away a great show and left us with a bunch of hogwash on our tv!!!!!
I’ve tried to watch other serials,but it’s no use KS and GC and those kids spoiled me.
Nothing can compare to Punar Vivah.
Some episodes of Pv have over 80k likes on YT.
HAPPY FRIDAY TO ALL AND BE BLESSED AND SPREAD LOVE AND SMILES
Almost forgot the people at zee who was responsible for our collective heart break have been sacked. Due to the failure of many of its shows.Yay!!!
The Times of India called the ending of PV1. One of the biggest fumbles in Indian tv history.
Amaica
March 07, 07:56Good Morning Trinity,
Thanks Trin.. Great news..
I totally agree with you..
They were the best..
P V 1 is unforgettable ..
geetha.tn
March 08, 13:31I agree with you trinty
SJ
March 06, 21:43AMAICA I have a suggestion
On Saturday sunis mom’s prayer day I want to ask all forum friend please write few bhajans lines
Everyone please at-least on bhajan line so our prayer can get to Suni
Like I would say
Hamkoo Mann JEE shakti dena , Mann vujay karay, doosaray kee jai say PHALAY khudha koo jai karay
Means god please give us mental strength , before we admire someone we should make admirable to ourselves
AMAICA can you send thus message to everyone , that please write everyone either 1 bhajan line or good saying for Saturday on suni’s moms prayer because you have strong voice , everyone will listen to you please
Amaica
March 06, 22:37SJ…
The forum friends listen and supports each other
Especially Suni… She is the special one here..
However.. That’s an excellent idea.. You are truly a planner..
Since you are so nice I’ll convey the message again..
Kris.. Trin… MU..Lenor..Afresh..Raji.. Aliyah.. Pree.. Apple..
Anu..Pat..Zac.. Other Friends of Suni…
SJ has suggested that we each send Suni a prayer..
The prayers is on Saturday 8th March from 9.00am
to 11.45am.
Friends this is a humble request and it will mean a lot
To Suni..Let us do something nice for our friend…
.The prayer can be .Hindu.. Muslim.. Christian…Other..
We all love Suni.. Let us show her that we do care..
God Bless..
Trinty
March 07, 03:51Not a problem at all.
I will be here to support our sister.
Afreesh
March 06, 14:56Hi everyone……♡♥♡♥♡
How are you guys?…..
Suni…I know you wanted me to present here, otherwise there wouldn’t be such question for which you know the answers already.
Sj…. you didn’t give me enough work to do at suni’s home, give me some more work except moral support
Amaica….. my dearest sister, I know your depth of love, actually I didn’t have any valid reason or justifications for my absence, believe me I really don’t know the real reason behind it…whatsoever, I will try my best hereafter….
suni….though the intention behind your question are purposeful, I wanted to share my feelings relevant to that ” Memories” , “Cries”…
Afreesh
March 06, 15:52Suni…
The creator has created each human with unique purpose whereby the changes and challenges are interconnected in our lives despite our desires and interest.
Is that we designed as weak livings or developed weaknesses into ourselves through bonds and memories?
We have no clues about the origin of our DESIRES & PASSION, how it strikes within us?…who wants it?…is it mind or heart or soul..yes, we are clueless , don’t know the answer clearly.
We have no idea about future , not sure whether we would get up tomorrow morning without any struggles and pain.
Who we are?…why we took birth in the universe?…what is our purpose on life?…if we can find the answers to these questions we may focus our vision in a peaceful way but unfortunately the devil surrounded us never allow to think what is required.
Challenges are designed exclusively for human growth but it’s not that easy to accept….because devil don’t want us to grow
Changes are unavoidable in the lifespan of human but we don’t feel secured with changes….because devil preach us different theory, therefore we try very hard to make our life stagnant.
CURSE OF MEMORY. …yes, I should say this whenever my memory doesn’t give me joyful thoughts. Who is the in charge of memory?…the MIND
who is constantly trying to bring those finished chapters into our new day without boring? ?…..
when my memory can’t cherish me forever, then why don’t I delete it?…. again next question HOW???….is that easy?… no not really easy but it’s not impossible
Finally…..we shouldn’t complain our creator for memory, in fact we should thank for giving us “forgetfulness” in our lives
And then crying is a natural process, we should cry if it is necessary…. crying baby fed first….it’s nothing like a strong person shouldn’t cry…if person suppress Cries then he/she tries to live against nature.
Amaica
March 06, 17:15Hi Hi Everyone… Look Who’s finally here …Afresh…
Afresh… You are like a rare diamond on this forum..
We appreciate your presence and valuable contributions…
I knew you will come.. But patience is virtue..
Like the light at the end of the tunnel..
I am off to Sat Sangh…Love you.. See you later..
SJ
March 06, 19:03Affresh I think I am going to get a heart attack , I know I am too young to get heart atrack but these sudden shock can play number on those who have a very sensitive heart
How I can sign work or chors to unreliable people
I am really very very upset, Affresh if there is anything even if we cannot help
You can share , or at least say hello once in a while, it guve me so much pain not knowing you are ok or not, well who the am I to think of you, I am nky one just putting my nose in people’s business
I really miss you , and Suni, these days I was thinking of Suni
You are the only one can help Suni she us so much close to you
I know ,how I am on 9/11 time allthough it us 12 year, but still so fresh
List my dad ans seeing my mom sad all time , make me more upset , mom doesnot think that
But for Suni it is so feast, I am glad you are there
If youh get time think in back of your head because I am nit in your front head
I love you and miss you
There might be error in typing and in auto correct, I have to go for a round in few minute
Please rake care of Suni
SJ
March 06, 19:15I mean for Suni it is so fresh not feast ,I should take my iPad from auto correct, actually this is AnnaS I iAd I will go this weekend home to get my stuff
SJ
March 06, 19:18Oh Affresh , you are so good in explain. I think I will become nun very soon
Did you ever study philosophy
Amaica
March 06, 19:47SJ..
Just returned from Sat Sang..
I was anxious to see your reaction..
You came down a bit harsh on her though
but Afresh of all people will understand..
She is lucky and blessed to have a friend
like you.. You are too much SJ.. Love you..
SJ
March 06, 20:57AMAICA you are little too kind, there should be someone , to tell Affresh how I feel
Don’t say I am too harsh on her, I have a right to do that
When we love someone to an extent , I gave to screme my feelling, don’t worry Affresh will survive
SJ
March 06, 21:36AMAICA no need to wash dishes , we can keep good qualities of paper plates and spoons
That way we can spent more time with Suni
We will spent more tie in puja attending suni’s guest singing all the bhajan
Later we will fold all the sheets from floor, take care of all left over food
And clean what ever needed and will sit togather to cheer Suni
Amaica
March 06, 23:24OKay SJ ..Then I will wear my sari and pretty up myself..
Should I bring my group musicians.. If we are to sing bhajans..
MU will sing Hyms.. Kris .. Afresh..and the two of us will do
Chants .. Trin will do Khasidha..Your Mom will do film Bhajans..
Wow.. Suni will be shocked..
SJ .. How you did not think of this..I have a projector and screen
We can put it up and while Puja and Bhajans is going on we can
show pictures of Suni’s Mom and her family in happier days..
You will remind Afresh to bring tokens to give out for
this special one year Prayers..Suni can’t think of everything..
She can get whatever is readily available in her place..
You know Afresh is an Arab Princess and may want to give out
really beautiful expensive tokens…let’s leave it to her..
F
SJ
March 07, 00:15Oh AMAICA you are so wonderful, how beautifully you convey the message, I am blessed we are blessed to have you , I mean that
Yes AMAICA that is a very good idea after the puja we can see suni’s mom on slide show
Ans will laugh and cry, I will make some tea at suni’s house , I learned to make good tea with cardmum faver, I can’t cook well don’t know well
Yah bhajan”s friend us a very good idea , Suni has a big heart she will welcome all of yes with open arms
Mom my can sing filmy and non filmy both , actually she used to sing gazals but after my dad she foes nf sung romantic songs, if she hear romantic songs, she start crying, she sings sad songs in party
Lately she sang sings from the movie ashqui 2 ,movie
Sun RAHA hay tu roo rahi hu may
Means are you listening , I am crying
I hope Suni does not get upset for all of our planning, thus us all to cheer her up
Many people say , when person is gone we should not cry or think should be happy
How can it be possibble , our lived I be leave so much vacume in our lives
We are nky god or saint , we are human being , many tine I think , my mom is so nice she never hurt anyone except scooled in us , she is so caring to everone always think for other never for herself, why she us in so much pain , cause of moms pain our life us nit normal , my sister stop coming home , she says , I can’t rake it
Sometime when my mom says in depressing voice oh one less day to live
This is so sad, my mom us so obsess with my dad , like napolian Bonaparte was with hus mistress
I am sad too, but if my mom can be happy a little , I can feel little better
Anyway , i am sorry this should not be for me .
SJ
March 07, 00:19Affresh you need to bring some puja token to give to guest like nah be candle, or dual or may be little somthing
Or may be incence to give as a token of one year prayer along with some fruits and dry fruits
Afreesh
March 07, 07:49Ok Sj……DONE….I will bring several types of dried fruits from my place because the taste are guaranteed.
Amaica dear…. don’t worry about Sj’s complaints and nice words, indeed I deserve it….hahaha
when Sj used to get hyper, I do enjoy her love and possessiveness….. Sj is our ‘Possessive Queen’. She knows very well how much I concerned about her but still she always enjoyed by teasing my love for her. That’s her style which I had noticed from the beginning of our friendship…..so, it doesn’t matter
Please Amaica don’t make me laugh by your appraisals…..I couldn’t tolerate those powerful words for describing my lazy attitude. We all are blessed to have you in our life through pv1, I don’t miss pv1 and also Gc &Ks but I should Thank pv1 for giving you people into my life.
Sj. …nowadays I’m watching few serials regularly , Ranrasiya, JA, SC, IPKND2, IPKND1, GEET, MB
and also some irregular serials like QH, YE Hai mohabateen, dumari pakki (Ansh is there)….now tell me how do I find time to chat with you……ha ha ha ha ha…..♡♥♡♥♡
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March 07, 08:36Amaica , I thank you so much for your kindness and support , but can I please say just one thing 🙂 . . Everyone here is special , everyone unique . I’m just happy to be amongst all you lovely people and to know your love .
SJ , Kris thank you for the bhanjans .
Trinity , MU you’re always awesome . .
Lenor , Pat your missing again 😐 . .
I can’t read everything here just yet , I took a cursory look .
Namaste Raji , Vanakam Geetha . .
I thank you all for your presence in my life . .and for your love . . you always have mine .
Take care and wish you all the best .
Amaica everything is going just fine with al the kind blessings . 🙂
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March 07, 08:48Aare yaar 😀 tum ai saa kay say kah sak tak ho 😛 ? I would never trick you ..
I’ll respond when I get time , love you . .
Amaica
March 07, 08:58SJ…Please don’t shower me with such nice words.. Help me
Instead so my ego don’t inflate..
Suni will be very appreciative of our kind gesture.. We have
A. Powerful PA system..also a sound technician .. Our voices
all blended together will surly sound great..Give good vibrations..
Afresh.. I mean everything that I say.. Thanks to you all for
Encouraging me to share my thoughts about PV 1 … Else
I would have missed the opportunity of meeting such wonderful
Friends…After that court matter.. I just want peace and love to flow..
Afresh.. The tokens are a good idea.. But you may not have the
Time to arrange.. Therefore I will take it upon myself to have my
Friend print a bookmark .. Foot Prints In The Sands.. In memory
Of Suni’s Mom..I will use white glossy board.. Print in black ..
on both sides… One side message..the other side Mom’s
Name… Date of prayers.. And acknowledgement .
Images of The Lord Holding Suni’s Mom In His Arms in pink or lilac..
Pink ribbon with fringe tied to book mark..
That’s my contribution..
I will sing Tumaa binathi suno sabaki ..khaliyaan karo jagatha..
Amaica
March 07, 09:38Suni… That is truly a gesture of love… Taking time to let us know all is well ..
Each of us will be with you in spirit.. to give you the strength and the support..
You place God in front.. Offer everything to Him..And be strong..Be happy..
Everything will work out smoothly.. Love You Always.
Kris
March 06, 09:51Good morning all,
Amaica in this age of Kaliyug it is nearly impossible to perform any rights and rituals in the correct way, to many restrictions, that is why or dearly beloved Shre Krishna has made it so easy for ust to just do Roop Dhyan, and meditate on the Devine form of the beloved, surrender your mind to the almighty God and leave everything in his hands, he will take care of each and every aspect of your life.
There are so many rituals to fulfill, that we cannot even begin to fulfill, so we must prepare ourselves while we are alive, so if our children cannot fulfill the requirements, well of course they can never be fulfilled,
So we must do for ourselves before we die so we will be taken care of after death.
And children nowadays thinks all this is jumbo jumbo, I’m glad Suni is doing her part, she will be benefited in the long run to.
Take care everyone,
Amaica
March 06, 12:38Kris.
. I have also heard that and know of
Some people who did it… They can also
do everything on the Bandaara day.
So no need for the six and one year prayers..
SJ..
Read the translation .. It’s most appropriate..
Suni will like it.. Hope she visits before the puja..
Trin.. Hope you have a pleasant and comfortable day..
MU..You are a powerful woman..You will achieve your goals..
Just Request.. Believe.. and Receive..Of course it comes
with hard work and dedication..When one door closes others
are there to open and explore..
Suni.. May The Lord continue to give you the strength and courage
to complete the prayers successfully..You are indeed blessed..
Your ancestors will be very happy with you..and play SJ.. Mom’s song..
Trinty
March 05, 13:11Hi all, hope everyone is well.
Well I had a wonderful time with my cousins and sis in laws.
Back out to work today no cool down on the beach for me.
I after all my partying over the last two days my feet are killing me,but I had to go and wear heels. I think my high heel obsession will be death of me.
Who could I get to rub my feet?
Bliss was fun had a really nice time, and saw alot of people I did not see in a long time.
One complaint I’ve, Women need to have more self respect!!!!
Amaica,Kris the bf went fishing over the carnival,and he called and told me he’s bringing home a lot of fish and wants me to cook!?
I don’t understand him, I can barely cook rice,he want me to cook fish? I think he and his friends enjoy finding new ways to torture me.
Much love and blessings to everyone.
SJ
March 05, 18:06Suni this bhajan for your moms prayer My mom sing a lot this is from one of the movie beautiful Lyrics
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aye maalik tere bande hum ayese ho humaare karam
nekee par chale, aaur badee se tale, taankee hasate huye nikale dam
ye andheraa ghanaa chhaa rahaa, teraa insaan ghabaraa rahaa
ho rahaa bekhabar, kuchh naa aataa najar, sukh kaa sooraj chhoopaa jaa rahaa
hai teree roshanee mein jo dam to amaawas ko kar de poonam
badaa kamajor hain aadamee, abhee laakhon hain is mein kamee
par too jo khadaa, hain dayaaloo badaa, teree kirapaa se dharatee thamee
diyaa toone humei jab janam too hee zelegaa hum sab ke gam
jab julmon kaa ho saamanaa, tab too hee humei thaamanaa
wo buraee kare, hum bhalaaee bhare, naheen badale kee ho kaamanaa
badh uthhe pyaar kaa har kadam aaur mite bair kaa ye bharam
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love wish you well
AnnaS
March 05, 18:13Suni listen this , I send you lyrics underkneeth
Beautiful bhajan this is video , very peaceful
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=snN9rjgf4gw
Amaica
March 05, 19:02Trinity …
I totally agree with you… About women having more self respect..
Nothing is wrong with having a good time but do it with some dignity..
I am glad that you like the prayer.. Hope the fish meal turned out great..
Kris..
Thanks…So many questions and no answers..Thought of Suni…it will
Be tough for her… Hindus have too many rituals when someone dies..
My children will not be able to do these type of prayers for us..
Suni’s Mom is very lucky.. To have a young daughter willing to do the prayers..
Surely she had some good merits stored up.. Suni will also gain eventually..
SJ..
Just listened to the song… I remembered it.. It’s beautiful..
Is it possible to post the meaning…Thank your Mom from forum friends..
If this is the type of film songs your Mom sings .. She has to be a professional
singer… Suni is also an excellent singer…
MU… Hope you read the prayer..
Afresh.. Still waiting..
SJ
March 06, 13:46AMAICA
Mom told me briefly
Meaning if the whole thing us
God we all are your children
We should do good deed, walk of way of honesty , and stay away frim all the evil and bad thing
So when we departure from this wired , we gave no guild and depart our life with happiness
There is so much darkness in this world, I get scared sometime you are the only one can show us right oath and your Devine light to fight against evil
When ever there are evil Happened in thus works, you took avatar and guild us , so please show us your Devine light so we could be a good and kind human being
And seek way of honesty and wake on honesty way
We are week We need your strength time be a good human being
I don’t remember anymore
But that is the basic message
What are you wearing on suni’s puja , I am gonna wear white cotton chudidar suit
We can make believe we are with Suni on her puja
Thanks love
SJ
March 06, 13:47AMAICA there are errors cause of Arturo correct, just try to get the message sorry
Amaica
March 06, 20:35SJ.. Thanks very much for the explanation..
I will learn to sing this song… Then I’ll sing it
In my puja room ..
Well let’ us see.. What to wear at the puja.
I will wear a crimson sari with flat gold lace
patterned boarder and flat gold Paloo..
simple accessories to compliment the sari..
I love to wear long earrings with my saris.
Second option SJ .. I ‘ll wear a simple sharwal
No need to dress up .. Put a apron in my bag..
And help Suni serve the meals or even help her
wash the dishes..I think this is a better option..
Wonder what Trin MU Kris and Afresh will wear..
SJ
March 06, 21:21AMAICA wear sari will be nice suni’s mom will be happy to see, how suni’s friend think of her
Bring your apron in bag, I will bring mine, allthough I am not good in cleaning but will learn
From you and will follow your order
I can picture you in crimson sari will look really nice with gold pallu
I am gonna wear just cotton white Chaudhary suit will be simple and easy to carry
I will bring done incence too , I always burn in my form room, I have sandalwood Kevera ,and musk we will burn them front of puja
I am happy Affresh showed up , she need a screem , my throat and brain started to hurt calling
Her and youh are telling me I am to hard on her
I feel like beating her and feel hugging her too
Amaica
March 07, 17:18SJ… I am absolutely sure that if all our plans are implemented
The results will be just wonderful..Just think if we were really
Meeting in person for the first time at Suni’s prayers… What will
be the reaction ..We will hug and kiss … And say .. Oh my .. You
are so pretty … Oh my God SJ after all this time I finally have the
Opportunity to meet you.. Mwah.. Mwah..Come let’s meet Kris.. MU..
Trin .. Afresh and Lenor..Oh and there’s Suni.. doing her puja..She’s
So beautiful and so young.. We will meet her after puja.. Let’s now
Sit on stage and do our bhajans..We start with Ganesh mantras..
Guru bhajan.. Devi bhajans.. Then chants
Om Shanthi .. Om Shanthi …Om Shanthi Om..
Om Shanthi Om… Om Shanthi Om ..
Om Shanthi.. Om Shanthi ..Om Shanthi Om..
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Hare Rama Hare Rama.. Rama Rama Hare Hare..
Hare Krishana .. Hare Krishana.. Krishna Krishna.. Hare Hare..
Hare Rama——————-higher note..
Hare Krishna—————-higher note..
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Shiva Chants….Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay… Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay..
Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay.. Om Shiva Hari Om Shivay.. Om Shivay Hari Om Shivay..
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Next….
Bhajans.. Hyms.. Ghazal.. Film song .. Other..
Closing prayer… End…
Amaica
March 05, 11:01To My Dear Friends…
Prayer for Comfort …..
Show me the path to comfort,the way to acceptance,
loss has visited my life,and I have been devastated,
my hopes and beliefs have been challenged
sadness waits for me at every turn..
May I see beyond the pain, beyond loss,
Moving beyond the sadness that now engulfs me,
I am beginning to heal and accept that the loss is real.
Bless my spirit with hopes and understanding,
help me to know that all lives contain sorrow,
accepting that my life is blessed, even in loss.
Comfort comes to me now, as I begin to accept,
time is beginning to heal me,slowly and gently,
a soft smile is preparing to cross my lips
Bless me now,as I accept, grieve and heal.
Kris
March 05, 12:34Thank you Amaica sis, you are wee ally awesome, I was feeling a little down, I just spoke to one of my sisters from satsangh, I felt better and then I read you prayer and felt even better, thank you for being here for use,
Thake care everyone.
Trinty
March 05, 13:14Thank you for this.
I wrote it down, I’m gonna copy and frame this.
Thank you again for posting it.
Kris
March 05, 08:29Hey everybody, hope everyone had a wonderful weekend, for the Trinis hope I you had a safe carnival.
Take care
Amaica
March 05, 11:15Kris … Guess you got a lot of house work to catch up with..
Did you see Trin’s band Bliss?..I actually missed it.. saw the
end but the cameras was more on the commentators.. So sorry..
Kris
March 05, 12:36No dear, was envolved all day Monday in satsangh and did so much laundry yesterday, saw some bands in San Fernando, this year was really nice here, beautiful costumes totally different from the string clothing in pos. Did not look at tv at all, did you see the pics with the two women wining down on two police, it was so funny, lol, only in Trinidad yes.
Phoenix
March 04, 11:51Love you SJ , how are you managing with the weather ?
SJ
March 04, 12:35Love you Suni, did you get a hande yo read my prior comments
I hope you didn’t mind
Weather is getting little better thanks
Take care dear
A
March 04, 13:00Darling Suni… Don’t worry Afreesh will be here soon.
I also look forward to her reply to your questions..
SJ has been very concerned about you.. Suni I think
you both should make arrangements to meet in the US..
Her love is genuine..I am available whenever you are ready..
Phoenix
March 04, 11:51Afreesh , I have a question for you yaar . .
If God wanted us to move on , to just forget and let things be , to go with the flow , then why did he give us tears ?
Why are did he give us memories ?
It seems like us humans were designed poorly 😐 . .
SJ
March 04, 12:35Affresh please answer , good question
Amaica
March 05, 11:35Afresh.. Hope all is well with your Mom..
Love you…Bug Hug and Mwah..