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  1. kris
    June 27, 21:49 Reply

    Hey all, I found the following, never heard it before,
    enjoy reading
    DID YOU KNOW ?
    There is a hidden secret in the sound of bangles. In olden times, the ‘parda pratha’ was compulsory. Women used to keep their faces covered in front of men. The other aged men and old people in the house also used to respect the presence of women around them. Therefore, whenever, there used to be sound of bangles, male members of the house used to understand that women are around and then they used to make sure that nothing insulting happen around.
    Ornaments of gold and silver provide maximum energy to women. Gold and silver bangles help in strengthening the bones of the hand. Due to friction of gold and silver, their qualities and properties of these metals enter your body. In Ayurveda too, the ashes of these ornaments is used to provide energy to body.
    This is the reason why women of older generation lived for long. They used to enjoy a long life and were able to work till the time of their death.
    A religious belief attached to this is that those women who wear bangles, the age of their husbands increase.
    The sound of bangles in a house keeps the unwanted negative energy away.

    • A
      June 28, 15:59

      Hello Kris.. I can now understand the reason why.. Many thanks..

  2. ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
    June 27, 07:44 Reply

    Good Morning / Afternoon / Evening / Night !!!!!

    HAPPY FRIDAY !!!!

    And

    HAPPY WEEKEND !!!

    • A
      June 27, 16:08

      Hi Phoenix… Same to you..
      Have not seen SJ around recently..
      Kris seem busy also…
      Afreesh has flown away again..
      I hope the others will join in soon..
      Off to Sat Sangh in SF …

      Have a blessed night everyone… Bye..

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 27, 20:03

      Hope you have a very enjoyable evening and a peaceful night ❤️ .

  3. ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
    June 27, 07:42 Reply

    During a research experiment a marine biologist placed a shark into a large holding tank and then released several small bait fish into the tank.

    As you would expect, the shark quickly swam around the tank, attacked and ate the smaller fish.

    The marine biologist then inserted a strong piece of clear fiberglass into the tank, creating two separate partitions. She then put the shark on one side of the fiberglass and a new set of bait fish on the other.

    Again, the shark quickly attacked. This time, however, the shark slammed into the fiberglass divider and bounced off. Undeterred, the shark kept repeating this behavior every few minutes to no avail. Meanwhile, the bait fish swam around unharmed in the second partition. Eventually, about an hour into the experiment, the shark gave up.

    This experiment was repeated several dozen times over the next few weeks. Each time, the shark got less aggressive and made fewer attempts to attack the bait fish, until eventually the shark got tired of hitting the fiberglass divider and simply stopped attacking altogether.

    The marine biologist then removed the fiberglass divider, but the shark didn’t attack. The shark was trained to believe a barrier existed between it and the bait fish, so the bait fish swam wherever they wished, free from harm.

    The moral: Many of us, after experiencing setbacks and failures, emotionally give up and stop trying. Like the shark in the story, we believe that because we were unsuccessful in the past, we will always be unsuccessful. In other words, we continue to see a barrier in our heads, even when no ‘real’ barrier exists between where we are and where we want to go.

    • A
      June 27, 16:03

      Excellent !! Great lessons…

  4. Kris
    June 26, 23:01 Reply

    Oh Amaica, it will be on Sunday now, it will be pre recorded then replayed sometime after on win tv.
    We’ll so the girl promised.
    Organizing them according to numbers and the numbers are a task by itself.

    I love Julie mangoes, but long is my most favorite although these days not getting any at all, resorting to climb a friends fence and use a long baboo rod to pick starch, but worth it in the end, yummy,
    Amaica you might know this friend of ours, he lives in grants road, near the rec ground, he is well known a retired teacher. Waiting when he not home to raid the tree 😀

    This show DAK that smart reminding me of the stories my mother would tell about her mil and my father, bad memories, waiting for Urmi to get a backbone and fight back, hit hard where it hurts the most, unmask Samrat infidelity

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 26, 23:12

      He’s such a horrible man 😐 . . And his stupid mother always condones his nonsense . ..
      Urmi will get him arrested after he beats her , and I hope that he meets a nice boyfriend in jail 😀 . .. But , I doubt I’ll ever get to see that 😐 . ..

    • A
      June 27, 00:51

      Kris…
      I think I’m too tired too sleep.. Will not be home tomorrow..
      I usually drive through Rousillac main road to an from from PF..
      Don’t know the teacher.. Not familiar with Grants Rd..
      You going to raid the man mango tree …. Brave girl….

  5. kris
    June 26, 13:13 Reply

    oh Suni, July mangoes, drooling here,
    you know you can cut out the flesh and oven dry them like they do pawpaw and raisins etc,
    I pay like $80 in pricemart for the equivalent of 3 mangoes,
    and it tastes delish.
    maybe you could try it, it stays well out of the fridge too. 😀

    • kris
      June 26, 13:13

      Julie, where did July come from lol

    • A
      June 26, 22:42

      Hi Kris. Suni SJ…

      Well it’s nice to see some conversations here…
      Kris.. Those receipes looks good..Will try it..
      Like Suni , I run out of people to share my Julie mangoes with..
      Kris today was your Raffle.. Who won..

      SJ…I Had a medical lecture at Sat Sangh tonight..
      Speakers were friends from Cancer Society and Heart Foundation..
      We have to take health topics to the ..Schools-Mosques-Churches-
      and Temples.. It’s. amazing how it was so well received..

      Suni it’s nice to see you in a happy mood.. Guess b/f is here..

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 26, 23:05

      Nope , nope dearest Amaica , my happiness isn’t contingent upon his arrival 🙂 . ..
      How’re you dear ??

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 26, 23:08

      Kris you pay that much for mangoes ??
      I usually feel hard to pay the Rastas 20 dollars for 4 starch mangoes in the market 😀 . ..
      How is that oven method done ? . ..
      Right now I’m forcing myself to eat at least one mango a day so that it won’t waste , but I know that later in the year I’ll miss those mangoes 🙁 . ..

  6. ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
    June 26, 10:24 Reply

    Preeeee !!! Doesn’t the hubby ever leave you alone for some time to come visit us 😛 😛 ??

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 26, 10:15

      Aaj Dil Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Lagta Hai (x2)
      The heart feels poetic today
      Udta Phire Dil, Utarna Jaane Na
      It keeps on flying and doesn’t come down
      Aaj Dil Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Lagta Hai
      The heart feels poetic today
      Bigda Hua Dil Sambhalna Jaane Na
      The spoilt heart doesn’t know how to take care of itself
      Aaj Dil Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Shaayraana Lagta Hai
      The heart feels poetic today

      Jagah Jagah Dhoondhe Tujhe, Tujhko Dhoondhe Khayalon Mein
      It searches for You everyplace, it searches for You in the thoughts
      Jahaan Jahaan Saaya Tera, Jaaye Raina Wahi
      Wherever Your shadow is to be found, my eyes look there
      O… Jagah Jagah Dekhe Tujhe, Chaahaton Ke Hawalon Mein
      It looks for You in every nook and corner of all the lovely places
      Jahaan Jahaan Paaye Tujhe Bole Jannat Yahi
      Wherever it finds You, it declares that place as heaven
      Aaj Dil Shaayraana Shaayraana, Shaayraana Lagta Hai
      The heart feels poetic today
      Wo… O…

      Subah Dhoonda, Pukara Tujhe Shaam Shaam Shaam Shaam Ko
      I searched for You in the mornings and called out to You in the evenings
      Shaam Shaam Shaam Shaam Ko
      In the evenings
      Khud Se Zyaada Diya Hai Tere Naam Naam Naam Naam Ko
      I gave more preference to Your name than mine
      Naam Naam Naam Naam Ko
      To Your name
      Meri Baaton Mein Tera… Wo…
      In my talks
      Aana Jaana Lagta Hai…
      There’s always a mention of You
      Hai Yahi Ishqana Ishqana Ishqana Ishqana Ishqana Lagta Hai
      I feel that this is love
      Aaj Dil Shaayraana, Yeah Hmm… Lagta Hai…
      The heart feels poetic today
      Wo… O…

  7. ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
    June 26, 10:00 Reply

    You know Kris , I have one of the best problems a person could have 🙂 . .
    I have so many Julie mangoes I don’t know what to do with so many , I gave to the neighbours , but each day I get ripe ones . I’m going to bake a cake with them . I never thought that I could get tired of Julie mangoes 😐 . My relatives told me to come for calabash and I’m going for those 🙂 .. .

  8. kris
    June 26, 09:47 Reply

    * Think of small ways in which you can brighten someone’s day.
    * Take small steps on your way to become healthier.
    * Think of small ways in which you can make the world a better place.
    * Take small portions of food at mealtimes.
    * Steal small moments in which to meditate.

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 26, 09:56

      Thank you Kris 🙂 . .
      Good Morning !!
      Wish you a lovely day !! ❤️

  9. A
    June 25, 10:31 Reply

    Throughout life people will make you mad,
    disrespect you and treat you bad-
    Let God deal with the things they do,
    Cause hate in your heart will consume you too.,

    Will Smith..

    My fake plants died because I didn’t
    pretend to water them..

    • Kris
      June 25, 13:03

      Hi dear, join the club, I always killing them, they outside in the hot sun to boot. We are getting little rain in and out, thought that’d be enough water, 🙂 wrong 🙁
      How are you dear,
      Hey all, have a nice day.

    • Kris
      June 25, 13:23

      Ok it there, this thing crazy and is replied, don’t even know what that word means lol

    • A
      June 25, 17:05

      Suni & Kris… I was not at home for most of the day..
      I feel great.. Thanks for asking..
      OMG… This is shocking news.. It’s never too late to educate..
      Poor kids… I feel so sorry for them…as early as ten and active..
      The laws of the land will decide…

  10. ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
    June 24, 19:19 Reply

    “I can think of no honorable answer. Why must some of us deliberate between brands of toothpaste, while others deliberate between damp dirt and bone dust to quiet the fire of an empty stomach lining? There is nothing about the United States I can really explain to this child of another world.”

    ― Barbara Kingsolver, The Poisonwood Bible

  11. angel
    June 24, 19:14 Reply

    hey guys
    how are you

    @ MU don’t bother with those EMA guys they are too obsessed with the stupidity that they can’t see the truth…….ur opinions on those characters are very accurate

    i was attacked once, started to ignore that whole EMA and life’s good, no more madness to deal with,

    take care 🙂

    • Miss Unbeliavable
      June 24, 19:15

      hi angel how are you

      this is the first time meeting you 🙂

    • angel
      June 24, 19:18

      hey i’m totally fine

      n i’m around

      i’ve seen many of ur comments must say they have weight

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 24, 19:21

      Hi Angel 🙂 . .. Welcome to PV page !!
      How’re you dear ??
      MU gets scared although she talks tough 😀 😛 . ..
      But , we understand and love her . .. We know that she has good points and understanding . ..

    • angel
      June 24, 19:25

      hi phoenix
      thanks for the welcome
      n i’m gud
      wbu?

    • angel
      June 24, 19:28

      glad to hear 🙂

  12. Kris
    June 24, 13:47 Reply

    Hey MU why fret the small stuff, I have learned to just ignore and move on continue with my own opinion, It is yours and no on can do a damn thing about it, yur views are always unique and I do enjoy reading them, and you are spot on with those characters on EMA,
    Some people are just too fanatical

    • lily
      June 24, 11:03

      hello ur so unbelievable omg!

    • lily
      June 24, 11:09

      hahahaha right phoenix

    • Miss Unbeliavable
      June 24, 11:09

      like suni this user named Sandra attacked me for so call not supporting Kalpi

      lol

      made accusations

      too me she was too emotional about the serial and couldnt read properly on what I stated

      it was on yesterday’s episode

      so this morning I sensibly replied and tried to clear her misunderstandings 🙂

      called me a Pookie supporter lol

      all i said was that at least Pakhi is true to her character the cvs didnt change her

      but Kalpi and Rhagav have literally changed and dropped their personalities somewhere else

    • Pḣöєиịẍ
      June 24, 11:21

      You’re correct about Pakhi not changing MU . That’s a good point .

      Hi Lily what’s up ?

  13. A
    June 24, 08:58 Reply

    Hi ……

    Life only comes around once, so do whatever makes
    you happy and be with whoever makes you smile..

    • Kris
      June 24, 10:02

      So true dear,
      Have a wonderful day,
      preparing raffles for drawing on thursday, too much work especially when the numbers aren’t in order 😉

    • A
      June 24, 18:58

      Phoenix … I understand… Excellent points.. . never looked
      at it from that angel… Very true..But excuse is not good enough
      for staying away..She will understand.. She loves you very much..
      Kris and I missed you.. If Trin was here with you I’m sure that I
      would have had a better understanding of The FBGame
      Why did Greece get a penalty kick in the end.. Was is justified..
      I felt so sorry for the other side…( Africa ) Thanks to you I’m
      looking at FBall and Tennis with KR…Not bad after all..

    • A
      June 24, 19:01

      Kris…I would’ve love to win the raffle..
      But no ticket no chance..Stay Precious…

    • A
      June 24, 19:09

      SJ… Hi… How are you keeping…?
      Please don’t let the mixed up writing
      keep you away… Forget it.. We miss you..

    • A
      June 24, 19:20

      MU.. I read your EMA comments…
      I support your views..I just can’t believe
      those one track women..,

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 24, 19:30

      You know Kris .. . I like doing things like that , I wish I could have helped . . 🙂 . ..

  14. Kris
    June 22, 11:49 Reply

    Amaica like SJ said, will solve when relaxed 😀

    ok so this should lighten the momemt.
    A burglar broke into a house one night. He shined his flashlight around, looking for valuables when a voice in the dark said, ‘Jesus knows you’re here.’ He nearly jumped out of his skin, clicked his flashlight off, and froze. When he heard nothing more, after a bit, he shook his head and continued. Just as he pulled the stereo out so he could disconnect the wires, clear as a bell he heard a voice….say, ‘Jesus is watching you.’ Freaked out, he shined his light around frantically, looking for the source of the voice. Finally, in the corner of the room, his flashlight beam came to rest on a parrot. ‘Did you say that?’ he hissed at the parrot. ‘Yep’, the parrot confessed, then squawked, ‘I’m just trying to warn you that he is watching you.’ The burglar relaxed. ‘Warn me, huh? Who in the world are you?’
    ‘I’m Moses.’ replied the bird. ‘Moses?’ the burglar laughed. ‘What kind of people would name a bird Moses?’
    ‘The same kind of people that would name their Rottweiler Jesus

    • A
      June 23, 08:01

      Morning Kris…

      Nice one…..Laughter is the best medicine…
      Don’t worry to stress yourself over the words..

      Not seeing Phoenix here.. Hope all is well..
      Lenor … How was the wedding on Saturday…
      SJ.. Don’t worry and anticipate about things too much..
      Enjoy what you’re doing at the present time. …
      you are blessed with a compassionate heart..
      Trust in God’s guidance and use your Vivek …
      Hello… MU… Afresh…Trin.. Raji.. Pree… Rajnee..
      A blessed day to all.. Bye..

  15. Kris
    June 21, 15:42 Reply

    Oh Amaica, doubles 🙂 I laying off the doubles these days, yesterday deans doubles gave away free, RVR said it was the best, he is a doubles lover. Today is a lazy day, have nothing to do,
    SJ you are so right, I got married at a late age too, you are very smart and has the right approach to life.
    Everything you said about Suni is so tru and more too. She’s got so much going for her.

  16. Kris
    June 21, 12:58 Reply

    hey all, Amaica, nince ones, read them before but always fun to read again, need t lighten the mood now and then.
    Suni, Sj, both gave great advice to each other, SJ you have a good head on your shoulders, know what you are about and what you want. Great going. suni, don’t rush thing my dear, life isn’t running away you know, you are beautiful and wonderful person, don’t think less of yourself.
    Amaica what you cooking this weekend girl, I feeling lazy, have to go down rousillac again tomorrow 7am.
    take care

    • A
      June 21, 13:07

      Kris I am home alone… No cooking .. Oropouche. doubles

    • SJ
      June 21, 13:35

      Yah kriss my Suni is smart charming , bright and intellegent person, she is strong headed and once I saw her pic in gravitar she is so beautiful , so natural , the way she analize and write out of the world
      I am so lucky ti get to know her, she is caring and a very responsible person will never turn her back from anyone when ever any one needed
      She has a right to be happy , she has no one around , she did and accomplish everything hpy herself with her mom’s guidance , in my eyes she is a princess with a golden heart
      In old time people didn’t have much choices , where ever parents arrange at young age they took it and work , care, and live with each other with in, no one knew what is love, living togather a tender loving care generated so calked love between each other and felt this is love ,even when husband was absuive they took it as granted and learn to live within
      Today everything is changed woman’s are educated, no one marry at early age, know the diffrence in right and wrong, can speak up their mind, will not take absue , and can take care themselves financially
      I think there is no proper definition of love
      Sometime when we have things we take as granted, when we don’t we miss it
      Lot of time both are diffrent from each other snd still feel love is there
      My mom says we shouldn’t make all the decession just on heart bases , we should use our brain with heart too
      Sometime I belive in destiny too
      I know Suni you are confused and her feeling are divided
      I am sure you are very smart and will make right decession

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 24, 19:24

      SJ , I’m good dear 🙂 . . And thank you for those lovely compliments . ..
      You should never think that you do not deserve my praises of you , because one of my flaws is that I speak my mind very freely . .. I don’t flatter anyone falsely . .. So , when I say those things about you , I mean them 🙂 . ..

    • angel
      June 24, 19:27

      sorry for butting in…..

      SJ your mom is totally right, decisions by the brain is far more successful

  17. A
    June 21, 11:53 Reply

    SJ ….

    You will feel better after reading this…I have no problems…

    Prov3 how our mind5 c4 n do 4maxing 7 hings..

    Impr355iv3 7hing5… In 7 h3. Beginning I7 wa5 h4rd

    Bu7. now, on 7his lin3… Your mind is r34ding. I7

    4 u70a71cally. Wi7h ou7 3v3n 7hinking. 4 bout. 17..

    B3, proud!…only. c3774in p3opl3 c4n. r3ad. 7hi5…

    It does not matter in what order the letters in a word are,
    The only important thing is that the first or last letters
    be in the right place..

    Azanmig. Huh. ! ….Luv U… By3…

    • A
      June 21, 13:05

      SJ… Kris Suni..

      I cdnuolt belvedere thar I cluod aulactly uesnatnrd
      What I eas. rdanieg..
      The phaonmneal pweor of the hmnan mnid.
      This is bcuseae the huamn mnid does not read every
      Lteter by istlef. But the word as a whole..
      Yeah— and I always tghuhot spelling was ipmorantt..

      7 hi5 i5 only for u5…

      H4ppin355 k33p5. You 5w337
      Tri4l5 k33p you 57rong
      Sorrow5. k33p5. You hum4n
      Lif3. K33p5 you humbl3…

      ..E—-3
      A….4
      S…5
      T…7

      Sorry to take up so much of your time..
      I just found it interesting to share..
      Remember first and last letter is important
      To be in the right place..
      Hope you all have fun….

      See you all sometime next week.. Bye..

    • SJ
      June 21, 13:37

      I will solve tomorow don’t want to get headache live you AMAICA you are so hillarious

  18. Amaica
    June 21, 10:02 Reply

    Good Morning – PV Women of Grace…

    “Patience, persistence and perspiration
    Makes an unbeatable combination for success. “

    • Amaica
      June 21, 11:15

      Phoenix…

      Just thought I’ll share with you… Kid’s are quick…
      …………….

      Teacher..Maria, go to the map and find North America..
      Maria.. Here it is..
      Teacher.. Correct.. Now class, who discovered North America
      Class… Maria..

      ——————

      Teacher…..Millie give me a sentence staring with ‘ I ‘
      Millie… I is —
      Teacher… No Millie…Always say ‘ I am ‘
      Millie … All right– I am the ninth letter in the alphabet..

      ————–

      Teacher…. Now Simon, tell me frankly…
      Do you say prayers before you eat. .?
      Simon… No Sir, I don’t have to…
      My Mom is a good cook..

      ……..
      Teacher…. Sam ,your composition is the same
      as your brother … did you copy his..?
      Clyde… No Sir…It’s the same dog…

      …….

      Have a great weekend Suni..

    • SJ
      June 21, 13:09

      No Suni I don’t feel accomplished , my mom says I trust too quickly, I am not a street smart person , I decide Togo in medical after 9/11 saw so much misery I dint go in medical for money
      People are sufring all over , feel pain inside me

      Once I was traveling to India , wanted to go to indian villages , I saw a lady holding a 6 year baby boy which was so week look 3 year old .fly were around him she was sitting and had veil on her face . We stop the car and ask what is wrong, she said my son is having high fever me and my driver fetch bucket of water from hand pump
      It was very hot throw some water on him gave him some medicine I had in my bag gave her some xtra to give him later , she wanted to touch my feet, I cried and hug her told her you are like my mom don’t do that , some one ask me if you win the lottery what will you do with the money I said , I want to have dr and dispensary in villages so no one die without medication ,but There is so much curption every where , when ever I think of that incident I still get my eyes wet

      When I travel to 3rd world country and I see in America people are spoiled in America
      Although I am American too, I guess these things are blood born pathases
      My mom and dad were same way
      Many time it feels I shouldn’t be in this field , I will never have money, I was working in drs office as internship
      Lady came and told receptionist she doesnot have co- pay , please don’t charge
      I had her file , I told receptionist dint charge, she Said dr will get mad , I said I will give
      My mom yelled at me fir these things and than she start crying ,
      And whole lecture, i am spending so much money for your school working hard , dad isnot here
      You don’t taje any proper responsbilities
      Many time I want to get mat prude many time I don’t want to get marride
      So by next year I will finish with my fello ship , take year off
      And open my practice in a village or a clinic
      I will never be accomplish Suni , I would feel accomplish when people have medical care
      Hunger free no crime, people feel safe in in world , woman will be respected and feel safe
      I am trying it set some goal , yoy can’t do everthing by yourself last year and
      Recently groupe of oeople set up some help they Melinda gate charity work
      I met her , what a woman simple charming seems like goddess

      Melt too quickly, allthough my mom us like that too, but how many year it took her to understand
      Thus world,

    • Anon
      June 23, 08:43

      No response!

    • Miss Unbeilavable
      June 24, 10:26

      SJ God bless you

      tears to my eyes man

      you are a true person

      such a beautiful soul

    • Pḣöєиịẍ
      June 24, 10:48

      SJ , where I live the country is considered ” 3rd world ” . But , that’s only a stigma that the Super power country gives to countries to keep them within a mindset and does not take into consideration the advancement within a country .
      I applaud you for having a caring heart .
      Which state did you go to in India ??
      I doubt that the majority of Indians live this way since India is swiftly developing and evolving into a super power in its own rights .
      The western countries have a lot to be ashamed of for the part that they played in undermining both India and Africa . There are also people suffering in America and England from poverty of the mind more than a poverty of wealth .
      There is a saying that sometimes the horse can starve even when the pasture is filled with green grass .

    • Pḣöєиịẍ
      June 24, 10:51

      Now you see Amaica dear , why I hesitated to respond here .

  19. SJ
    June 19, 20:09 Reply

    AMAICA kris Suni Affresh raji MU pree trinty hello every one MUAH MUAH to everyone

    • Amaica
      June 19, 23:54

      SJ….Be Happy So When Other Look At You They Become Happy Too…MWah. Mwah…

    • SJ
      June 20, 19:44

      Yah AMAICA and we all get happy to see each other happy

      Suni how are you my darling seems everyone forgot about everyone
      How is life, are you very busy with your studies and work
      Suni I didn’t mean to be be nosy but how is life with bf, what are you thinking , what dud you decide , do you feel he changed the way you wanted him to be
      Is his family nag you for anything
      You don’t need to rush for marriage , you are young , is he cold type or exciting kind of of
      I watch a Hindi Movie ma prem kee DIWANI hu ,
      Kareena kapoor and herthik roshan
      When kareena says to his teacher mam our choice doesn’t not match in anything
      He like methi paratha , he like horse riding,he like under water diving mam I never even sat down on horse ever, I hate under water diving
      Teacher ask her is he the boy who is sitting outside and waitting for you since morning
      What if your choice doesn’t match, you can teach yours to him and learn his from him
      I know easy to say than done
      It is so hard to trust anyone these days , girls are one who suffer more I guess
      I promise my mom will not come home , every time she talk about finding someone
      She know i will not like arrange marriage .
      Than when I go back to dorm , i jeep thinking ,she is right it take two to three year to get to know the person , he is the one or not , and if I keep breaking constantly than will be to old
      And one day won’t find anyone
      Let us see
      My friends try to fix me I get irritated , there are lots of geek in my school don’t like them don’t click. Me
      SUNY think carefully what you want to do
      Do yoy have some other choices , how is bf acting, is he seeing anyone else
      After marriage will you still be a part cause of his job or togather , I hope you don’t mind just thinkin of you

    • Kris
      June 20, 20:15

      Hey all SJ, how are you dear,
      Amaica Suni how the long weekend shaping up.
      I went to the Bhandara Festival, not much people while I was there, sun was too hot, n ext year, I’m gonna have a booth, we having Surinamese cuisine
      enjoy the day night

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 20, 20:41

      Never can you be nosy SJ darling 🙂 . . You can ask anything .
      He’s a very ambitious guy , has a sis. who can get jealous and annoying at times and a bro. who he thinks his parents place above him 🙂 . ..he’s a middle child . He’s good conversation wise , he’s not seeing anyone else . He’s a Hindu , religious . He has some friends who can be real a##es in terms of spying on me when he’s not here 😀 , that’s most annoying 😐 . .. He can get carried away with them sometimes and drink too much occasionally , but he says this has changed . He’s a gentleman , a bit old fashioned in nice way in that he will drive , ensure that manly things are organized like taking care of the vehicle and house . He’s dependable , but also has a tendency to be a bit insecure and give long lectures 😐 . ..
      His mom’s a nice lady so is his dad , but he’s not very comfortable with his dad as he is with his mom .

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 20, 20:57

      SJ , you’re an accomplished , loving , kind , brilliant , beautiful young lady .
      Some guy is really missing out on not being with you .
      I think now , that women aren’t concerned , as they used to be , about marrying young as long as they have satisfying careers and freedom . Just look at Rani Mukerjie , she just married at age 37 or 38 . ..

    • SJ
      June 20, 21:40

      Thanks Suni for your beautiful and honest reply
      He is old fashioned to tell you the truth I like old fashioned guys feel protected
      Sister jelious and brother possive not good. Need to work on that
      Spying can’t believe , I. Not good
      Think he is insecure , he will not leave you, he will faithful to you
      Because he invested so many year to get to know you don’t want to go with anyone whic is good you will never be heart broken
      When wife is there sister brother friend should take back seat
      Need to work on your freedom, after marriage you should have your freedom to breath
      Freedom of work
      Shouldn’t be any interfear from family
      Drinking and friends sometime these become obsession and ruin the relationship need to work on that
      If you are serious just talkt tohimaboutrhese things and watch
      Tell him don’t try to posess me , wait and watch and see what your heart says
      Big lectures,either you give him back or stay calm. Listen with one year take it out from other

      Yah Suni I have few years I amnot in rush mom. Want me to get marride before 30 , it is not going to happned I told her that
      After I finish my studied
      S want to take year off to travel , I worked very hard so much ups and down
      Want to relax little bit, if someone cones inmy way ok, dont want to rush
      When we are young we gets picky slowely our choices get narrow. Down
      Rani Mukherjee is 36
      I have time no rush
      My dear i love you and wish you the best

    • A
      June 20, 21:49

      Comment

    • SJ
      June 20, 21:51

      Dear snafu a I hope you feelling better now are you resting or you shopping spree
      Kriss dear his are you. , wear your new ventures dud you buy any new saree
      I know you Saudi you like saree with lite work my mom wear light shares
      What are you doing in tis summer
      I am running in morning, because I am home , will leave Sunday or Monday morning

    • Amaica
      June 21, 10:26

      Kris… Morning..

      Surinamese food.. sounds good..
      Hope everything is now working out
      smoothly in the land development..
      Hope your guest have a great time in T&T..

    • Amaica
      June 21, 10:31

      SJ… I’m sure by now you have had your run and
      Is feeling energized . Oh .That feeling is so great..
      Enjoy your time with your Mom..
      Do something nice for her today..Bye..

    • SJ
      June 21, 10:47

      AMAICA there are so many errors in one of my email that was about you and kris I read today my god I don’t even know how the meaning and words changes
      From now on I think I should read before posting , IPad is dangerous
      I am dory live I hope you are feelling better
      How are you kriss , what are you new end overs for summer
      Love

  20. Kris
    June 19, 11:11 Reply

    Good morning, evening all,
    Have a wonderful Labour day to all trinis and a holy Corpus Christi too.
    Namaste Raji didi how are you?
    Good advice Amaica,
    Suni love is not all that is needed, you have to be understanding, understand each other’s needs and temperament, you have to share the same thinking and want the same goals for your future. You must both think the same. I am still surprised, even though I should not, that both my husband and I think the same, sometimes without having a conversation we both says the same thing at the same time. You have to think along the w
    Same wave length so to speak. He must love you more than you love him and do things that make you happy, that is what true love is. You love the other person for their happiness and not what you can get out of it.

    We in our country have a long weekend ahead, do enjoy
    Suni Amaica, there’s a Bhandara Festival at the Duvalier Nagar tomorrow, will be attending, lots of food will be on sale for charity etc.

    • A
      June 19, 13:19

      Hi Kris…

      Have a great weekend yourself Kris..
      Tomorrow my sisters organize a family luncheon..
      Bhandara Festival at DNagar…..That’s a new one…
      Enjoy… Don’t over eat to put on the pounds..

  21. Raji
    June 19, 03:30 Reply

    Hi friends 🙂
    namaste 🙂
    how are you to all 🙂

  22. Kris
    June 18, 09:49 Reply

    Suni my dear, I read below,
    Compromise in a relationship is compulsory in order to make it work and have a healthy relationship. but so is freedom of speech and movement. You should not be restricted in any way, you should still maintain your independence, have your own opinion and should not feel threatened if you feel like doing something for yourself or talking to anyone.
    I wan once in a relationship like that, I felt so suffocated, it became physical then I said enough is enough.
    I count my blessing everyday that I did not rush into things, I waited, when the time is right you get what is destined for you.
    Now even though I am married with children, I compromise a lot, but it goes both ways, he also compromises, even more than I do sometimes. I still have my independence, I can talk to anyone I can go places and not worry what he’s gonna say, I can have friends over who also became his friends, and his mine.
    My case is not unique. Don’t compromise your self respect for no one.
    Will listen to the songs in a bit.
    Doing some long awaited house cleaning, I tell you it is so hard to get domestic help, I got a girl, and boy oh boy, she doing everything so halfway, I have to end up doing it the next day, need to tell her don’t bother to come back.
    I have a Russian Jew/Cuban/American/Miami girl friend here and between both of us we getting things done.
    Have a nose bleed tooo,
    Laters

    • Amaica
      June 18, 10:26

      So your Honor.. F.Lady in the making..
      You can’t say Hi to me.
      Now that I know ,you better take excellent
      care of RVR and be careful when you go out..
      I now understand the issues before..

      You probably know the aunties from the M side.
      Like LM and others.. I’m from the F side..
      cos son actually..I am from the latter summer group.
      Regardless nothing can change our relationship ..
      I’m still your big sister.. Next time say Hi..

    • Kris
      June 18, 11:29

      Lol 🙂 hi my big sis, was thinking so much of Suni, did not mean to leave you out,
      Wow, so you know RVR.??????? Really?????
      Small world yes, yea I know the lot and the story.
      How’s your injury dear. Hope all is well.

    • Amaica
      June 18, 11:42

      Kris… Not personally, but read some of his judgements..
      Amazing individual..Didn’t know the connection until
      yesterday… You’re are both lucky to have each other..
      Good advice given to Suni…bye..

    • A
      June 18, 15:16

      Thanks you dearest SJ.,MWah.,,
      Suni… Ck. conversation lower down..
      Lenor.., Everyone is knocking at your door..
      Where are you my dear..
      Afreesh..,How is your Mom these days girl..
      Trin… So much exciting WC football and you
      not here to share with Phoenix..
      MU…Kris and I need people from your place
      to work for us…They’re excellent workers.
      Kris….So you know the story…Really sad.
      but time heals all wounds..

    • ℘ℏöḙn̛i̵ҳ
      June 18, 18:48

      Thank you very much for the advice Kris 🙂 .
      I can compromise a whole lot , but there were so many times when I felt like I was the only one doing so . I’m not the jealous type , I’m not bothered by his activities because I have a level of confidence on myself that if he wants to do wrong then let him do that because he’s not the only guy out there . But , he’s not that way , he’s pretty much like me in his thinking . During our time apart I didn’t hear of him being with anyone else and he lives about 10 houses away . He honestly seems changed and if I give him another chance I will have to forget all his past mistakes . I sometimes wonder if I love him enough though . Then again , I guess love is a very contentious topic and who really knows what it is 😐 . .

    • A
      June 18, 20:23

      Phoenix… Never think that you are worrying Kris and I..
      I think she won’t mind me speaking for the both of us..
      We are both happy to give you our shoulders to lean
      on whenever needed.. I can sense that you are scared..
      It’s a big commitment that you have to make and if you
      need time I’m sure he will respect your decision..
      Feel free to talk to us anytime Suni.. We are here for you..
      Don’t go in with great expectations because you will
      have disappointments if things did not work out as you thought
      As Afreeh always tell us just go with the flow..
      Point to consider.. The man is working off shore.. Half the
      time he won’t be at home.. Just helping you to be strong
      to face the moment of truth… Love you…

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